Just a friendly reminder not to let this be you. Always be your own motivation.

donttakemelightly · 2020-12-04T02:09:22+00:00

I guess she is her own heartbreak. And she's going to feel heartbroken regardless so why not use it for good. I say good on her for owning it and not allowing it to swallow her up.

Image_Inevitable · 2020-12-04T03:39:13+00:00

It's true. Something about realizing your own freedom.

CatSweets · 2020-12-04T21:44:19+00:00

I realized (unfortunately) that I'm more motivated when I'm in a relationship, but nowadays I just don't see the point of getting involved with someone just to have my heart broken and then going through a terrible period of suffering, so I just don't bother 🤷🏽‍♀️

yesmme · 2020-12-04T06:50:00+00:00

Or she can skip the stress and depression of heartbreak and just skip ahead to the motivation part

MadamLeFay · 2020-12-04T15:24:06+00:00

It just shows that when she has a man in her life, she lets her life fall apart...

daisyinflux · 2020-12-04T02:12:59+00:00

BAHAHA

Shecommand · 2020-12-04T16:46:33+00:00

Some are addicted to the drama and chaos. It’s a weird addiction if you’ve been engaged as a child or in a relationship. You get “high” off the endorphins of drama. I’ve been there and had to rewire my brain to enjoy serenity and calmness. It’s mental gymnastics 😢

calmandcollective · 2020-12-04T14:37:42+00:00

The moment I saw this on Instagram, I just knew it would be reposted on FDS to show how NOT to be

InayahDaneen · 2020-12-04T17:27:06+00:00

But the stress of heartbreaks (which is major) or any stress can cause one to age prematurely and develop auto immune diseases. I’d rather avoid heartbreaks by not investing after witnessing the first red flag. Yeah no thanks, I’m not entertaining lvm’s.

Coins_Only · 2020-12-04T05:39:50+00:00

Wow I thought I was the only one

2020-12-04T04:43:52+00:00

That's giving too much power to some low life scrote . I want to do good by myself , for myself

Title	Just a friendly reminder not to let this be you. Always be your own motivation.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	311
Comments	15
Date	December 4, 2020 1:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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