If you ever gaslight yourself into believing you were too harsh with a perfectly courteous rejection or feel like you were rude in any way to a dude that ended up accosting you shortly after saying 'no thanks', I've a message for you.

Dude literally lost his cool because you declined his proposition to be his sentient fleshlight. That's literally what the majority of them want, when you see them making a beeline towards you. Going far out of their own journeys to make you uncomfortable in highly inappropriate places/situations. Remind yourselves, before thinking your reply too MeAn, that this individual is flying off on you for like 10 seconds of sweaty grunting that won't even be intended to cater to your needs. Remind yourselves that the hostile creature accosting you is interrupting that spiralicious riff in a Tool song you were ready to recieve before you had to take your headphones out to say uh, what? Or a really good part in the book you were buried in. A sweat drenched, muscle engaging workout that he crossed the gym and interrupted. Remind yourself, as some women put it here, that you're pretty much an NPC and they think of themselves as these misunderstood, alpha heroes traversing solipsistically through life until they find a woman to bother.

That's all. That's the post. 😬