Just a reminder...

chokeychokey · 2019-10-13T14:13:44+00:00

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missmatchedsocks88 · 2019-10-13T16:05:55+00:00

This. I held onto my most recent relationship longer than I should have because I didn’t want to be alone. So glad I snapped out of it!

patchw0rked · 2019-10-13T23:40:26+00:00

This is hitting home now. My boyfriend didn’t reply to a heavy message (about why I was upset about something he did) I sent via a messaging app, and replied via text literally 48h later (with no contact between) with a totally unrelated light message and a note that he hasn’t read my other message because it “seemed really intense”.

s_slayer · 2019-10-13T20:51:15+00:00

Exactly. I’ve turned the page and now instead of blaming myself when things go wrong, as women do because men are NEVER wrong (unless it’s something extremely blatant that can’t deny and even then...), I now ask, do I even want to deal with another guy like this? Been there, done that. Since the vast majority are all cut from the same cloth, I have not had the good fortune to find the rare good man who would help me become a better person instead of finding reasons why I’m not good enough.

The saddest thing is, I have been questioning lately if there are ANY men out there worth my energy and time. I’m not willing to go 20 years older and be a sugar baby. But guys my age are still mostly completely un-self-aware and would rather commit suicide than do some introspection and get right with themselves. Women are SO much stronger than men.

Halofriend101 · 2019-10-13T15:38:57+00:00

damn this hit home . my bf didn’t answer for 10 hours and my mind automatically goes to “he’s cheating “ bc of my past and i had already started to make peace with it in my head lmao and mentally prepare to dump him and live my best life . probably not the healthiest thing either to asume that much its better than my past self tjat would’ve found ways to make him stay .

listen10 · 2019-10-13T18:30:09+00:00

Yes I need to be reminded of this on a daily basis until it's a natural way of being for myself.

cerebralbbygrl · 2019-10-14T00:30:20+00:00

WOWOWOW this is such an amazing way of looking at things

Title	Just a reminder...
Author	Halofriend101
Upvotes	906
Comments	22
Date	October 13, 2019 1:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dhahw5/just_a_reminder/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/just-a-reminder.690041 https://theredarchive.com/post/690041

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