Keep your standards high. You are worthy, you are deserving.
Just because you look a certain way or don't look a certain way, doesn't mean you are unworthy or undeserving of love or having self esteem.
Always put your best foot forward. Take care of yourself. And don't let fugly men make you think just because you don't look a certain way, you aren't worthy of love. A lot of these fugly men are projecting their hatred on women and will use any opportunity to make themselves feel superior.
I've seen all types of women shown off, loved, married, in loving relationships, etc. Doesn't matter the color, race, weight, etc. Don't drink the Kool aid that you have to look like a clone of Kylie or Kim in order to be loved. I know we are expected from the day we are born to place a lot of our self worth based on looking like the current beauty standard. It's certainly not true.
Once people know they can't fuck with your self esteem, you'll never be affected by their words again.
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I feel this way too. I like to think of myself in a positive light but I have a lot of struggles with my self image. Coming here a lot of times and the things that I’m reading makes me think that I must be a lot less attractive than a lot of the ladies here. For instance, roasting a scrote for being fat or having a dad bod makes sense in the context that he’s demanding something better than himself. The problem is that we paint this idea with these kind of comments that fat is undesirable. I’ve been sensitive about my weight my whole life and when I see someone getting put down because of their weight, I go down with them. Love this place but it’s not as inclusive or positive for ALL women as it claims.
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