Make sure to nurture your man during YOUR pregnancy so he doesn't cheat, but if he does anyways, it's pretty normal and totally forgivable!

Sherbert-Trick · 2020-12-08T15:44:03+00:00

What an absolute load of garbage. It’s up to the expectant mother to get the father involved in the baby planning and make sure he feels important so that he doesn’t cheat IN ADDITION TO GROWING AN ENTIRE HUMAN, doing the majority of the household chores and child rearing of older children, and working full time so she maintains that 50/50! Society truly does not expect men to take responsibility for ANYTHING. How about you just honor the promise and commitment you made to be faithful?

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2020-12-08T15:53:56+00:00

Maybe shitty men who are incapable of demonstrating even the most basic love

just shouldn't have kids.

If you can't love your wife, you can't love your kids, either.

Aphor1st · 2020-12-08T16:59:50+00:00

The second I read “I wanted to feel important and valued,” he said. “And it worked.” As an excuse for his cheating I wanted to vomit. Jfc.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-08T15:25:44+00:00

Wow I couldn't get past the first section of this swill. Horrendous. "Men don't cheat for sex, they cheat because they have emotional needs. Somehow accessed through their penis during sex. But it's not about sex! But you should be servicing your man all through your pregnancy sexually. You only get 3 nights off sex duty otherwise he gets to cheat, choose wisely. All the cheating male doctors agree so it must be right. Also it's about emotional needs!"

I don't believe any of these guys have emotional needs or they wouldn't be cheating scumbags. They're pigs who don't love their wives and only see them as fuck holes.

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-12-08T15:47:10+00:00

What a pile of crap. And to think I used to believe this shit.

aellope · 2020-12-08T18:28:14+00:00

So what I read is, men are so emotionally stunted that they can't experience emotional intimacy in any form other than sex, and it's our responsibility to provide sex to them to keep them from straying, because he's fine and doesn't need to fix his issues. Also you can just jerk him off or suck his dick if you don't want to have sex, because if a woman is not sexually aroused she still has no excuse not to do those things (presumably "touch" and "mouth" stuff he refers to in the article does not go both ways). Also if he cheats it's fine and it's your fault and you can move past it because he's a big baby who needs to get his rocks off for one reason or another and who are you, the mother of his child, to stand in the way?

What I did not pick up on at all from this article: any empathy or regard for the woman's needs for intimacy, emotional or physical, while carrying a whole ass baby inside of her.

OrangeyPanda · 2020-12-08T17:46:57+00:00

LVM can't handle when the attention isn't 100% on them at all times. Truly selfish beings that shouldn't exist in the human gene pool.

glowupglueup · 2020-12-09T02:43:00+00:00

He wants to be cared for? She's busy caring for her child so she can't give him as much attention? So men want mothers not wives.

Apricot_Ibex · 2020-12-08T19:11:35+00:00

No, no, no. If your partner is “jealous of the baby“, saying “muh dick” and bitching about sex for a temporary time stretch during which you are busy gestating a human being, whining about his emotional needs not being met (his ass isn’t being kissed enough and his bangmaid is out of commission), having a midlife crisis with “second thoughts” over his entire family, resentfully jacking it to porn and/or searching out escorts or side girlfriends because he feels “ignored” instead of bringing his useless ass to your pregnancy appointments.....run like the fucking wind!

He is a mentally screwed narcissist, possibly a sociopath...very likely with deep mommy issues and/or a Madonna-wh*re complex, or at the very least, an entitled douche, and he could hurt or even kill you and your baby! Pregnancy is a deadly experience for many women because of their own male partners going apeshit. Women must always be aware of this. The stats are sobering.

What does all that tell us? What it DOESN’T tell us is that women should lie down like doormats at a vulnerable time of their lives when they should be most cared for and cherished. Fuck that noise.

soapboxbby · 2022-08-14T06:53:06+00:00

I’ve read this article before and it just made me angry lol

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