Man showing his true self after first date?

Summerisle7 · 2020-08-18T17:13:32+00:00

The problem is in a lot more than your texting.

Read the handbook.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-08-18T17:12:06+00:00

Negging. This is negging. He set you up for a fall. Block this ass!

Check out our handbook in the about section. It's full of great posts and resources!

Madholley · 2020-08-18T17:20:22+00:00

Don’t bother explaining. Block and delete. Being attractive does not make him a worthwhile person. Why would you continue to chat with anyone who makes you question yourself like this?! The only thing cringy is his behavior. Ick.

AverageToHot · 2020-08-18T17:36:50+00:00

Don't ever ask a man out. It's against FDS principles.

aryawhitesbane · 2020-08-18T17:15:17+00:00

Being without a man is better than being with one who treats you like shit. Dont settle for anything less than you deserve!! We don't have to say that this guy is necessarily the scum of the earth, but it sounds like he's got some intimacy and self esteem issues, and i feel like you're just gonna end up disappointed and hurt

strangerinthealps_ · 2020-08-18T17:45:03+00:00

The problem happened before you even went on the date, when you had to do all the planning because he couldn’t get it together.

Block and delete. He can have fun with his dorm hookups (that probably don’t exist.)

theperfectsunflower · 2020-08-18T18:18:15+00:00

He mentioned hookups with other women b/c he wanted you to jump through hoops to not also neg you but to start a competition so you can be like “wHy hOoKuP WiTh ThEm WhEn YoU hAvE mE”

Sekina7 · 2020-08-18T19:17:11+00:00

His behaviour signifies he is not interested in you for long term and thinks he is out of your league. Block, delete, read handbook and work on self esteem, upgrade.

lacyvulture · 2020-08-18T20:03:39+00:00

Hes attractive so he is making you work for him. I hate guys like that. He is cocky, he is egotistical, and he doesnt care about you. They age really poorly too. Im older than you by a decade and I dated so many of these scrotes back in my early twenties before I knew the game. I see them on facebook and they are fat and shitty looking. I still look banging. One just messaged me the other day and hes married with two kids. DISGUSTING. They need to work on themselves or it is a sad future for them.

NEVER chase these scrotes, it is death DEATH. Act like you couldn't care less about him and have your own life. He cant plan a date, BOY BYE Guys like that need control over you, so he negs you and sees how low you will debase yourself for him. It makes them feel good about themselves. Never give him what he wants. Never give him that power over you

trying_to_sleep_here · 2020-08-18T18:36:02+00:00

You know the answer here, otherwise you wouldn't ask. Block him now.

2020-08-18T22:09:59+00:00

BLOCK

Icchy24 · 2020-08-18T22:31:14+00:00

I basically planned everything, because he said he slept late and had no energy.

Next time a guy shows no effort, block him and move on

Jasmineof-Agrabah · 2020-08-19T02:32:46+00:00

I felt my eyes roll to the back of my head so hard on this one. Why. Do. You. Ask. Men. Out. ? Are you actively trying to get hurt ? Oh I assure you at this rate it will happen.

saying this as if I would be talking to my younger self

Title	Man showing his true self after first date?
Author	jellysmoker
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	August 18, 2020 8:52 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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