https://www.instagram.com/p/CXwjkwApfOm/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Rumors are saying he was controlling of her and held her more wordly past over her head like she wasn’t good enough. They say she had to do intense therapy over feeling too inadequate to date him as a pastor because of her past and someone who listened to his book says he was constantly bringing up her past in a way that was a little too much for him to have a neutral view of it or not be holding it against her.

Others have said the breakup mayve been caused by fertility issues or a difference in desire for children

Others say it’s over the racy scene in the new Amazon Prime shows she’s acting in- Harlem. One scene involves her being propositioned to eat a man’s a$$ on screen. She declines him but they get as far as him being completely naked on the bed with his legs in the air waiting for her to do it with her head a few feet from his bare bum looking before she kicks him out. So of course the still shot of that is circulating and possibly giving a poor impression, even though she actually declines. And there are also some lesbian scenes in the show filmed by other actresses, which mayve been problematic to him owing to wanting to upkeep his image as pastor of a mega church. But honestly people were already questioning if they were separate because they hadnt been spotted together long before that

Others have claimed he came off controlling/ overbearing, barely letting her speak in interviews. And like he was trying to mold her into the type of woman he wanted her to be

But the one thing I’m hearing that concerns me most is that there have also been accusations of subtle negging of her and things said to cut her down and make her insecure or lower her self esteem.

A lot of fonts cited the video clip below where he’s pinching her stomach and telling her she needs to work on it even though there’s nothing at all to pinch.

I’m mean if he wanted to say something about someone getting fit why not use himself as the reference rather than making her the butt of the joke. He should’ve grabbed his own gut and said “I’m trying to get this together. Hahaha”

It shows a certain presumption of your control over a woman to do that to her especially on cam or front of others

https://youtu.be/wZjyV5piVEw