"Men as provider" argument.

Society, social conditioning, and our own family members encouraging women to "be feminine" and rely on men should be considered psychological abuse.

Individual men do not provide for women. They often distract us at best, and take what we create for ourselves at worse.

How many times have you all had men swear loyalty and love to you, and then ditch you and be AWAL when things get difficult.

Only to resurface later after you've taken care of it all?

Most men who are pretending to be providers are leeching off of their parents or wife, and using that lie to then ditch the wife who has done all of the work.

Never think a man will save you - most of them will do the opposite.