Mythbusting The High Value Man (FDS PODCAST EP. 74)

SnarkSticks · 2022-08-03T09:50:36+00:00

*EP. 74 - Mythbusting The High Value Man **SUPPORT THE PATREON! <3*\* There is a fundraiser for $10,000 going on to help grow FDS so they can make more...

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Lol I don’t date scrotes. So you can shove your response where the sun doesn’t shine. I’m thrilled that scrotes don’t want me, that’s what I prefer. Defend and provide is not a high standard you idiot. It’s the bare minimum. When it comes to the ps5 scrotes rather buy it because most hardcore gamers lack a social life, they are usually out of shape and use video games to cope with whatever they are missing. And with online play its easier to interact with humans. But An adult and a successful careers man wouldn’t even touch a console.

Also the women you are into have no desire to hook up with a broke loser like you who still lives with his mother. I know I won’t find good quality men on Reddit. just look at all the triggered responses including your petty ass.

As for braincells.. you can’t lose something you don’t have. Bye Felicia.

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Do you even feel affection? Do you feel proud of yourself, when you call all men trash? Don’t you feel ignorant when you say “those gamers” and don’t realize women play video games too? What event in your life caused you to be this bitter, sad, narcissistic, angry person that spends their time on an app like reddit and only filling yourself with hatred? Do you stomp around angrily in your house when you speak to people on this app? How come you feel you are entitled to the protection, care and especially love of another human being while thinking their entire gender is shit? I really wish you the best and I hope you will find the perfect man for you, but please realize that your bitterness will only deter people, not only men, from you. I’m not going to talk about politics in this, because I’m only 19 and don’t really care about that nor do I have the knowledge about it. But what I do know is that every person deserves to live a happy life, and the way you’re living it won’t make you happy.

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This appears to be the first one so I'm just gonna put my answers here.

Any parent would want there kid to be protected but I believe it doesn't matter what I want at the end of the day because it is her decision, all I can hope for is that I raised them well enough to live a life they can look back on with a smile. As for a man to defend her, I am very much against relying on others to protect me. Daughter and son alike should always be raised with a spine and knowledge of self defense.

As for being in a relationship where the other is "useful," I don't like that idea. My idea of a healthy relationship came from a woman I met years ago, "my husband understands that I have enough in savings to move away and buy a new house. If not that then my credit score will easily get me a loan. If not that then my monthly income can easily get me an apartment and brand new furniture. And the exact same goes for him. We're together because we want to be, not because we have to be." That should matter above all else, wanting to be together. Not looking for how they can be used.

As for your last point I can somewhat agree. You should always support your spouse but just as everything in life you can't expect something back. You should support your spouse because you love them and want to see them succeed, not because you want a cash in. That's like having and raising a kid expecting them to be your retirement plan because of all the effort you put in and they owe you.

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When it comes to you as a man, if you come out of a failed relationship everyone assumes that the woman he was with is crazy but if a woman comes out of a failed relationship or failed marriage she is always the one who gets the blame “You should have chosen better, “you allowed it” “ a man only treats you that way if you let it” “There is two sides of the story” with other words women are held accountable for their own actions and the actions of men too in any marriage, when it comes to divorce rates women are always the scapegoat and assumed that she filed for divorce. But never do they look at the reason, but when men file for divorce it’s probably for the best. So that’s why women are choosing better due to FDS. Few years ago I was a pickme and I thought as long as I’m loved I can be with anyone. I ended up in situations I didn’t like because I felt it was wrong to wanting more than love. So now I look for men that enrich my life and meet the bare minimum standards I mentioned a lot on here. As far as I know I’m not crumping anyone’s style for wanting this. Even in the animal kingdom the male species defend and provide except in the matriarchal groups like bonobo’s and elephants. So why is it so alien and farfetched to men in general?

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As for leaving a relationship/marriage, people usually ask why. He cheated, dumbass. She cheated, bitch. Grown apart, that happens. People change, you aren't the same person you were 5 years ago. Obviously not the same for everyone (subcultures differ wildly as you know), but people gossip and will inherently want to know why. With all that said though it doesn't matter what they think as long you made the right decision to make you happy in a healthy manner.

As for beleiving you only deserve love then looking for enrichment, love is a vital part of a relationship but a foundation is not made solely of concrete. You need whatever it takes to make you both happy in the relationship, but looking at it in a matter of, "how will dating this individual pay off in the future" is not a healthy relationship in the long run in my opinion.

As for the animal example, you are not an elephent. Humans and animals evolved wildly differently dependent on needs. I always find personification and application to human social interactions be a weak argument, no offense.

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I can agree with your first statement in having something to offer. If you cannot provide the basics for the relationship (emotionally specifically) then there is no point in trying. And if you are expecting the individual to be the piece to complete you so you can get on track, then the relationship is doomed.

As for friends I have to disagree. Anyone can be nice, that doesn't mean you deserve a connection. Kinda like that nice guy bullshit, just cause you act like a decent person doesn't mean this dude has to come help you move or go drinking with you.

And lastly I do agree with your final point. Not everyone can be a man, just like not everyone can be an athlete or a scholar. It takes hard work, a good set of ethics and time to become a man. But a lot of people don't want to put in that work and instead want the fruit without any labour. So that we can definately agree on.

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“What am I doing wrong? I'm a 20 year old male, reasonably attractive and only a little awkward. I live in a nice single bed apartment, my job allows me to always have some spare cash and nothing I own is trash. I stay in shape, I love to cook(mostly cause it saves money) and my hobby is rooted in films. My idea of a date is dinner and an activity(movie, bowling, etc.) and I know I'm not that bad of a conversationalist, but after 2 years of online dating and only 2 dates (one heavily photoshopped and the other ghosted me after saying she'd love to go on another date) I have to ask what the fuck am I doing wrong? I mean Jesus Christ, I have asked friends of both genders both young and older this same question but they say they aren't sure. I have shown them my dating profile for advice and even after still nothing. My friends say I am not a bad looking dude and I can hold a conversation so what the hell am I missing?”

Love this post from your history, bud. As far as insulting someone based on known information, it’s clear that you’re unsuccessful and unhappy in your own dating life and come here to take it out on women who have standards you obviously don’t meet. You and I both can agree on one thing—you’re definitely doing something wrong when it comes to women.

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Title	Mythbusting The High Value Man (FDS PODCAST EP. 74)
Author	SnarkSticks
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Date	August 3, 2022 9:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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