NEVER chase a man, always chase your dreams! 👑 ✨

CuriousBubbleMilkTea · 2020-11-01T13:02:42+00:00

One thing I learn from the high value women that I met before, is that their HV husbands always help building that world with/for them.

Supporting them with their daily work, or helping them to study, or accompanying their hobbies, etc. They lift each other up, and not dragging another down. Always strive for growth, and not satisfied with mediocrity. Each gave 100% to the relationship, and not 50/50.

shoo_coworker · 2020-11-01T13:55:06+00:00

I feel like chasing men just turns them off too, they get the idea that you're desperate and lose attraction to you. It's paradoxical but I've experienced it first-hand, guys don't respect women who are selfless and caring--they just walk all over them.

Eva4ever28 · 2020-11-01T13:22:33+00:00

Even if someone you like is chasing you, you should still focus on your dreams. If they fit, the fit. If not, you’re already living your best life.

Fearless-Cookie · 2020-11-01T12:54:21+00:00

Totally. You might regret not going after your dreams because of a guy when you break up. So chasing dreams is always more concrete than giving it up because of someone else, especially a guy whom you’ve lived fine without all along.

maraslove · 2020-11-01T13:59:05+00:00

Like I always say: Money won’t wake up and tell you “I don’t love you anymore”. 🧚🏾‍♀️

2020-11-01T15:26:27+00:00

At least your dream won’t wake up and tell you it doesn’t love you anymore and leave you basically penniless in a divorce.

yggiwtmiih · 2020-11-01T12:45:43+00:00

If i had to chase him he didn't want to stay.

milk444 · 2020-11-01T16:17:32+00:00

Thank you for posting. I am building my own life now and it feels so good.

mtan15 · 2020-11-01T11:51:22+00:00

👏👏 amen!

ehh_ma_ · 2022-08-08T13:08:28+00:00

much needed at the moment <3. thanks.

Title	NEVER chase a man, always chase your dreams! 👑 ✨
Author	Ok_Ad_67
Upvotes	996
Comments	11
Date	November 1, 2020 9:57 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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