Reasons being:

  1. It reinforces low-value behaviour. If a man doesn’t have to be high-value to receive love, sex, children, and a partner in child-rearing, then he will never change as he would have no reason to. He already got what he wanted.

  2. Having children with a LVM only serves to pass on that low-value behaviour to the children. It is harder to raise high-value men and women when one or both parents in a family aren’t an example of what it means to be HV. Also, LVM are more likely to be absentee parents - whether they’re in the home or not - so you’ll likely be shouldering most of the responsibility and spreading yourself too thin to ever dedicate enough time and energy for that.

  3. It will reinforce patriarchal notions like “all men are flawed in this way” and “high-value men don’t exist” because you will be accepting LV behaviour and perpetuating how commonplace it is. This will ultimately lower your own mindset - making you believe that low-value men are the only ones that exist as that’s all you’d be surrounded by.

Committing or reproducing with a LVM literally only benefits low-value men. It won’t even benefit the children you have with a LVM as it’s leagues more difficult and consequential to have children with a LVM than it is to reproduce with a HVM or remain child-free.

One of the reasons men are uncomfortable with FDS is because they realize they don’t meet the standard and that means their pool of attractive and pliable women will get smaller. However, I also think an even bigger reason they’re mad is because if women begin to understand that they have the power to reject men for being undesirable and misogynistic, then they’ll also begin understanding that they can refuse to give low-value men children - like they believe their chances of having a family without having to be good fathers and husbands is also dwindling.

And they’re right. That’s how it should be.

Imo men shouldn’t be guaranteed commitment or children, and this is especially true if they haven’t done the work to deserve it or be able to help out. LVM should either learn to step up or they can die childless so they have less chance of fucking up their partners and their children with their misogyny, low emotional intelligence, and their selfishness.

Don’t lower your quality of life for that.