On Raising men....

Minute_Sign · 2021-02-03T15:30:20+00:00

I don’t just blame parents, I blame society as a whole. Men are allowed to get away with so much because of the world we live in. I mean for fucks sake girls are sent home from school because their exposed shoulders might distract the boys but boys literally get away with sexually harassing girls at school.

bareasscontessa · 2021-02-03T17:41:50+00:00

I solemnly swear my 12 year old son is worlds more emotionally mature than his 44 year old father because I’m committed to breaking this cycle.

queen_beastmode · 2021-02-03T17:32:33+00:00

I've gotta say that what some people call letting 'boys be boys', really does look like behavior issues due to lack of adequate parenting, low key neglect, abandonment, and abuse from a children's behavioral health perspective.

Angeli_33 · 2021-02-03T15:44:47+00:00

She speaks nothing but truth 🙌👏

_mooness · 2021-02-03T23:34:46+00:00

Fine blame it on the parents, but that stops at 18. Once you’re an adult YOU are responsible for your behavior. Any 26yo acting like a 12yo is actively CHOOSING that behavior. They were the victim of bad parenting as a child, sure, but that excuse no longer holds when you’re an adult. LETS STOP EXCUSING GROWN ASS MEN FOR BAD BEHAVIOR.

FirePreferred · 2021-02-03T20:22:53+00:00

good god, YES.

slow_life_ · 2021-02-04T01:43:23+00:00

👏👏👏

7Cuervos · 2021-02-04T08:03:27+00:00

As much as I would like to agree with her, there comes an age where you take a deep look at yourself in the mirror and realize, YOU are whats wrong.

Not your mom, not your sister, not your girlfriends job to fix you. YOU gotta fix yourself.

This feels in a way as if the blame is once again being shifted on women. Males are the ones who need to take a look at themselves and level the hell up.

Title	On Raising men....
Author	libralia
Upvotes	164
Comments	14
Date	February 3, 2021 3:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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