A man that feels entitled to nudes is a man that will use them against you if he see's fit.
Sending nudes has to be one of the biggest "pick-me" things you can do. You put so much at risk just to entertain and keep your man happy, and then it makes it that much harder to get away from them and that much easier for them to abuse you.
If a man can't respect your unwillingness to send nudes, he doesn't respect you or your privacy. Period. Don't let him guilt you by saying it means you don't "trust" him. No. It means you don't take stupid risks. Receiving nudes of your partner is NOT an essential part of dating. Don't forget it.
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