Put in the effort with this guy. Try again else where, I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️

h4596guggvvyyrev · 2020-05-02T07:04:56+00:00

Ewww ewww ewww ewww eww. No. If a man is talking about other women he had sex with, he's a slimy douchebag. Next.

throw248348 · 2020-05-02T08:27:26+00:00

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eru378 · 2020-05-02T09:05:46+00:00

Literally nothing about this situation sounds good. Please stop seeing this awful man. "I said he can stop calling me now", but you know you can cut off contact with him, right? You know this is a bad situation and you are clearly extremely unhappy, so stop this passive behaviour and just cut him off.

nopuedeser818 · 2020-05-02T09:07:16+00:00

DUMP

HIM

Oh my gosh, when I got to the words "HARD WORK" I was already exhausted. And then the rest? Forget this. Get out.

h4596guggvvyyrev · 2020-05-02T11:00:06+00:00

I am going to block that number. What can I say. I welcomed him into my home. Thanks babe for your support really appreciate it.

h4596guggvvyyrev · 2020-05-02T06:20:52+00:00

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sashimi_girl · 2020-05-02T12:59:46+00:00

Bad conversation
Bad sex- it’s okay to tell a partner what you find more enjoyable, but if the sex was SO BAD for you that you “confronted” him afterwards and you describe him as lazy, he just doesn’t sound invested in YOUR experience or pleasure and that is not okay.
Bad personality
Treats you poorly- calling other women on FaceTime during a date?!

I don’t care how hot he is, this is NOT IT for you. And DON’T feel bad for him because you think he is “down and confused”. He can be all of those things ALONE. It is one thing to work on yourself via therapy and other things... and another to base your self esteem on what sounds like pity sex with several women.

Ink3dmama · 2020-05-02T13:55:39+00:00

“He talks about other women he had sex with in detail...”

That alone shows he’s a LVM and not worth your time. It’s disgusting, and it’s incredibly disrespectful not just of you, but of the women he’s talking about. Dump, block, move on.

Not_LouDobbs · 2020-05-02T17:27:42+00:00

Please, any energy you do have, put it into YOURSELF, and growing/healing/loving yourself. This guy is emotionally wearing you down, and it's all to his benefit. The more he exhausts you, the longer you will ignore all his red flags and inexcusable behavior and be subservient to his needs. He is using you and your energy.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-05-02T18:55:52+00:00

Girl! Block this walking red flag 🚩like YESTERDAY

Novemberinthechair · 2020-05-02T12:29:00+00:00

Hard work? Eww. Dump.

sweatydeath · 2020-05-02T14:03:25+00:00

Dump him ASAP

This post might interest you:

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/d1hnk5/men_only_stay_interested_in_emotionally/

throw248348 · 2020-05-02T23:52:47+00:00

Whaaat??? How long have you been talking to him for??? He sounds messy and all over the place. Honestly please block him

h4596guggvvyyrev · 2020-05-02T10:10:32+00:00

Thanks so much for your reply babe. I have been so isolated and had no one to talk to.

Title	Put in the effort with this guy. Try again else where, I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️
Author	h4596guggvvyyrev
Upvotes	27
Comments	26
Date	May 2, 2020 4:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/gc0ois/put_in_the_effort_with_this_guy_try_again_else/
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