Qualities I look for in a man

goatismycopilot · 2020-07-30T08:32:58+00:00

Unfortunately for me my dog who is super extroverted likes everybody.

diflorus · 2020-07-30T13:59:39+00:00

I think there’s a fine line with frugal, I like that quality too but I always spend money on quality gifts and experiences for my loved ones.

The last guy I dated always claimed he was frugal but he was stingy af. we dated for 6 months and each time was a movie and dinner at a low end restaurant. He didn’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day or my birthday. So I’m always cautious whenever a guy says he’s frugal.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-07-30T12:31:49+00:00

Those are similar to mine, but an important ones for me are:

Finishes the job
Go-getter

I've met many people who start doing something and then give up because they say it's too hard. People who don't bother trying something because they think it'll be too hard, even with mundane things. I tend to find this extremely unattractive.

I don't expect people to take big risks or sacrifice themselves excessively unnecessarily, all within reason, I'm just referring to things they could very well do if they put their minds to it.

Alma00019 · 2020-07-30T12:15:24+00:00

OmG FDS iS sO ToXiC! It's aLL a BuNcH oF goLDdIgGeRs!

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poliedrica · 2020-07-30T12:34:43+00:00

Haha I was trying to work out what being vulnerable had to do with not playing video games (number 7). Not playing games in either sense is a must 😂

Good list! I personally would add confidence, the kind of quiet confidence that comes from true security in onesself, not bravado/arrogance that hides insecurities. Insecurity or shyness is unattractive to me.

I also appreciate someone who is motivated and makes an active effort to see me. Laziness and flakiness is a the biggest turnoff. I want someone who is willing to make plans like going hiking or camping and actually follows through.

m00n5t0n3 · 2020-07-30T13:17:04+00:00

I have similar ones, I also have "appreciates the little things in life (with me)"

LizardInFirst · 2020-07-30T16:25:39+00:00

This is a great list. Mine is similar. Genuine, consistent kindness (and not just to women he wants to shag) is underrated.

yucca22 · 2020-07-30T17:12:13+00:00

Same. Good list.

Title	Qualities I look for in a man
Author	SmoothDaikon
Upvotes	47
Comments	13
Date	July 30, 2020 5:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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