Really makes you think

BunniferJones · 2020-03-01T21:28:01+00:00

Ladies, watch out for the “my ex is crazy and abusive” excuse (from men)! While it does happen, for me the reality was they were still together and cheating. Having a crazy ex was a good cover for an affair with her.

Edit: the excuse of crazy ex “stalking” him was a good way to hide their mutual contact, like regular phone calls.

pinkyberries · 2020-03-01T16:34:11+00:00

Don't date guys who still have some contact with their ex, they either still love her and use you as a rebound/to make her jealous or never loved her in the first place.

detectivejuicee · 2020-03-01T17:32:23+00:00

Oh, trust me... his ex WAS blocked. He just couldn't block his thoughts of her* out of his head, and could not stop talking about her.

* Surprise! It was actually a him! He just lied to you for a year because he was afraid you would leave him for being in a relationship with a man, so he was going to tell you on your wedding night!

BlueberryOrchid95 · 2020-03-02T01:19:52+00:00

Woah 😳 damn that’s an eye opener

Foxesandwrenches · 2020-03-02T02:17:30+00:00

I wish I would have thought about this 7 years ago. It’s 7 years later and I still see her pop up in his DMs. Now I’m stuck here and she’s off somewhere else laughing at me.

JesusisKingisLord · 2020-03-02T00:38:54+00:00

Yikes

SimWebb · 2020-03-02T18:15:33+00:00

Absolute gold

Title	Really makes you think
Author	Flums666
Upvotes	1300
Comments	20
Date	March 1, 2020 4:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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