If you have been reading too many posts on Reddit about abusive or toxic relationships,

If your intuition has been saying for a while that he's not good for you as a lifelong partner, and he'll never ever ever be,

If you know that he is not a true HVM,

If you know that he will be a deadbeat, lazy husband, or a father,

If he continues to neg you, lie to you, discount your feelings, break promises, belittle you, cross your boundaries, blame you for his behavior, lash out at you, be unsupportive of you, criticize you and your choices, make you feel horrible about yourself unnecessarily, over and over and over again,

If he continues to disrespect you in all the little and not-so-little ways,

If he doesn't treat you like a Queen,

If he is nice to everyone else but at home, he treats you like an emotional punching bag,

If you know that you want and deserve a King...

Then,

Every day you spend with him is not a day you spend on healing the traumas that drew you to this idiot,

Every day you spend with him is wasted on a LVM/ZVM/NVM who will never ever be the man you deserve,

Every day you spend with him is not a day you spend on leveling up your life to the highest freaking self-actualization and up-leveling of YOU,

Every day you spend with him is not a day you start living life for you, doing what you want, exactly how you want it, without caring what anyone else says, especially this ass,

Every day you spend with him is not a day you spend looking for a HVM who will add immense value to your life and will treat you respectfully, ALL THE TIME, even when he disagrees with you,

Every day you spend with him is one more day you subject yourself to mistreatment, disrespect, lies, abuse, negative energy, and him being an ass,

Every day you spend with him is one more day you are taken advantage of,

Every day you spend with him is one more day of your energy sucked into the cycle of his negative bullshit.

Every day you spend with him is one more day of you feeling drained, tired, confused, and sick of it.

Love enough yourself to leave and put yourself first.

Enough is enough.

Do not rationalize his behavior anymore.

He's not going to change, sis.

If he really wanted to, he would have. By now.

But, he didn't, so you're fucking DONE.