So that was a lie

chasingastarl1ght · 2021-01-08T04:57:46+00:00

Beware if he uses SM has a punition/reward tho. I was the one that didn't like to showcase relationships on SM. He insisted "I want a picture of us!!" - he put it out as a profile pic. Every little fight, he'd take it down - so that his harem of pickmes could come and ask what was wrong with us. It was humiliating.

KaiSparda · 2021-01-08T03:16:30+00:00

This is an instant red-flag and deal breaker

pinkcloudzzz · 2021-01-08T05:39:04+00:00

My ex did this to me. I cannot believe I fell for it. He was hiding me from his ex.

missgirl649 · 2021-01-08T04:03:33+00:00

Yeah that was an issue in my last relationship with a nvm. I’m not sure if it was just an effort to decrease my confidence and being a dick or the fact that he probably was cheating, but I think both lmao. I didn’t know why he would never post me when he looked like my ugly cousin compared to me.

Perrytheplatypus03 · 2021-01-08T11:06:38+00:00

What if someone just doesn't use social media? Neither my partner or I use anything - Snapchat, TikTok, IG or FB.

I can see this being a red flag if someone uses SM a lot and posts pictures and stuff often though.

veniphyl · 2021-01-08T10:59:29+00:00

I myself dislike announcing to people about my relationships, including posting pictures, but I'll do it if it makes my partner happy

I_am_so_lost_again · 2021-01-08T15:09:34+00:00

This is the truth. I was 100% a secret in my last relationship. He had Facebook but never posted on it but at the same time was always on it and talking to people. Like if I posted a photo of us, I wasn't even supposed to tag him in the photo.

Now I'm dating a guy who has never hidden me and if proud of being with me. Its a night and day difference.

Do not settle. You do not have to be a secret and don't allow yourself to be a secret. It just makes it easier for them to have side chicks.

DinkyDoo531 · 2021-01-08T15:11:53+00:00

Haha yea they’ll say this but when they move on to the next victim they post her all over their social media.

autumnxo92 · 2021-01-08T22:42:45+00:00

I love when men are the ones exposing LVM behavior, not gonna lie.

I'm a pretty private person myself but if I'm with someone and feel like he's hiding me (either online or in person), it's gonna be a no from me.

Title	So that was a lie
Author	iaintgonnacallyou
Upvotes	439
Comments	16
Date	January 8, 2021 3:10 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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