So…the bare minimum is your standard?

cml678701 · 2021-09-24T18:49:13+00:00

I’m shocked that she said buy me gifts.

xfelugirlx · 2021-09-24T18:06:41+00:00

The bar is so low that they want an actually healthy and caring human being

sherbearie · 2021-09-24T18:31:57+00:00

Ugh, it feels painful to read that wanting the basic expectations of a relationship is considered a standard and a luxury one.

smartwhaletoken · 2021-09-24T18:41:44+00:00

"I like a boyfriend that's also a boyfriend" wow revolutionary!

But also... the fact that she finds this revolutionary isn't really a reflection on her, it's probably been her dating experience 😔

grmpygills · 2021-09-24T18:53:04+00:00

So listened to the podcast yesterday and it’s so crazy how people really can’t say exactly what they want from a relationship aside from the bare basics.

We are literally conditioned to think bare basics is enough for a relationship - forget compatibility in all other areas. Forget intellectual equals or goals. Forget aesthetics and personality.

He just has to treat you like a human and like you.

Cool.

filthy-weeb · 2021-09-25T07:20:34+00:00

Lol younger me would've thought that this was above the standard. Now I know better.

donttextme_k · 2021-09-24T18:52:57+00:00

It’s actually sad because these woman probably had terrible exs and this type of standard is a step up

fireforestfairy · 2021-09-25T14:09:41+00:00

Yeah. Why date someone who is not into you?

darkhorse8419 · 2021-09-25T10:42:09+00:00

Shit it’s sad that this is the bare minimum and then the rest is being a parent you can rely on. Which is the standard for women

Title	So…the bare minimum is your standard?
Author	xpressurself111
Upvotes	462
Comments	13
Date	September 24, 2021 6:04 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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