When I found this sub I was a bit shocked at how harsh some of the rules sounded. Then as I read through the posts everyday it dawned on me - we are moulded to be a certain way with men, to accept their flaws and non-commital attitude because we should be grateful someone shows an interest in us.

Fuck that. I've spent far too long hoping that this guy will come around to liking me, or that that one maybe needs more time...

I've realised that I deserve the absolute best and if a man isn't going to give it to me then he can jog on and play his games elsewhere.

It's crazy how people see a strong woman as a 'bitch' or 'up herself'. Like, no! We just have standards.

So thank you all. I've gotten rid of a guy who has held me back for too long. He didn't appreciate anything I did so fuck him. And fuck all the guys who call us names for having faith and standards!