The harsh truth

even_thriller · 2019-12-26T15:53:08+00:00

One of the best things I learned from He’s Just Not That Into You.

pinkyberries · 2019-12-26T14:29:16+00:00

Exactly, men don't play hard to get. If he wanted you he would be at your door, not the other way around. Stop fooling yourself, upgrade to a better man.

2019-12-26T16:06:57+00:00

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pinkpeony6 · 2019-12-26T20:07:21+00:00

And if they are too shy or playing hard to get, that’s not the kind of guy you want anyways. I recently dated a guy who always made me make the first move because he was so nervous to annoy me or that I wouldn’t be into him. He was nice but so riddled with insecurity that it just didn’t work out.

amiranda00 · 2019-12-26T17:51:48+00:00

Needed this! Every single time I need a slap of truth, FDS comes through!

Thraoawei · 2019-12-26T16:53:55+00:00

Be careful tho, if he makes himself too readily available there's usually a reason and it's usually a staggering flaw.

TheWarmestHugz · 2019-12-27T00:26:26+00:00

Yep, just left a friend for 3 days to see if he’d message me first. He hasn’t so he can hop right off. Don’t need toxic people in my life in 2020!

buffysummerrs · 2019-12-27T22:59:22+00:00

Men don’t play hard to get. Women do. End of story. If he’s not calling, it’s because he doesn’t like you. Move on and let go. I’m in my 20’s but I wish someone told me this when I was in my teens.. instead of obsessing over why my crush didn’t like me back lol.

throwaway64857 · 2019-12-27T01:42:28+00:00

This is something women need to repeat to themselves all the time, especially young women

2019-12-27T12:28:35+00:00

Yes yes and YES narcissists ughhh

andrewbc93 · 2019-12-26T20:26:29+00:00

Title	The harsh truth
Author	derpinat_butter
Upvotes	1437
Comments	21
Date	December 26, 2019 2:14 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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