This is so true! An important reminder that I saw today.

mantaraymagic · 2020-02-17T12:45:30+00:00

I feel called out! Haha

Luckily, I have the self-restraint to not act on my remaining pickmeisha tendencies.

Sage_Planter · 2020-02-17T16:17:36+00:00

Alternative: "How they treat you is a better indicator of how much they truly like you."

riddzyrooster415 · 2020-02-17T15:32:05+00:00

Today I told off the LVM I was seeing. I don’t know if it was the right thing to do, but starting FDS and not hearing from him of a week and a half only to find out he’s been in another state with his ex......someone needed to say it and I’m glad it was me.

“I’m not going to sit on the back burner while you continuously attempt to get back what’s gone. I see your “priorities” and don’t want to be 2nd or 3rd to your attempts at getting your ex back. Please stop wasting girls time and making them feel bad about themselves and leave them wondering what’s wrong with them when it’s you that can’t get your own damn head straight. Try again when your 100% over your ex. When you’re done running back at the drop of a hat. Delete. Move on. It’s time. Someone needed to tell you what you don’t want to hear and I’m glad I got to be the one to the truth in front of you.”

Asshole.

noturbaby92 · 2020-02-17T16:44:29+00:00

I would add that if they treat you badly and you still like them you will have to look deeply into yourself to figure out why. And once you do, fixing it is terribly hard. But it is possible and worth it. I have personally had to take that journey of figuring out why I am attracted to men who treat me badly, and it has been a painful road filled with tough realizations... and I am so much better for it, and no longer a viable target for LVM (I just steer clear of them).

litttlest_lemon · 2020-02-17T17:29:22+00:00

Ugh I needed to see this today and I hate it :/

riddzyrooster415 · 2020-02-17T17:36:46+00:00

He actually blocked me first on Instagram. I took that as I’m right about my assumption....

Title	This is so true! An important reminder that I saw today.
Author	halfways
Upvotes	457
Comments	15
Date	February 17, 2020 10:35 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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