This is true, yeah? Thoughts?

WroughtIronHare · 2020-10-11T11:46:38+00:00

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dashrath_Manjhi

This dude spent 22 years with a hammer and chisel carving a path through a mountain to the nearest town because when his wife got injured she died because doctors weren't close enough.

His wife wasn't even alive anymore and he was still dedicated enough to move mountains for his love for her.

Some men don't want love, they want easy access to a backup plan for when porn can't scratch their itch.

99agent99agent99 · 2020-10-11T04:43:50+00:00

On point. If they wanted to, they would.

Pudding5050 · 2020-10-11T09:33:04+00:00

Yup. Everybody makes time for things they really want. If they can't be bothered to show, they're not that interested.

SerenaFit · 2020-10-11T06:09:41+00:00

Yes.

vibewitheasi · 2020-10-11T16:43:16+00:00

Guy I’m seeing (24 M) lives 3 hours away. I (22 F) was locked out of my car and I didn’t have triple A. He drove all the way to me so he could help me get my Keys out because he didn’t like me being stranded even if I’m just at home. If they want to they will. I also now have triple A

oh_botha · 2020-10-11T07:49:22+00:00

Yep. I’m only here because I want to be here. It’s easy to see who matches that and who doesn’t.

Cairenne · 2020-10-11T13:39:38+00:00

This is the one bit I struggle to hold onto sometimes. Because I did meet a really good guy who does all the right things, except he's never around.

I do come to the conclusion that is enough to be a "No" from me, but it's way trickier than leaving LVM. 🤷‍♀️

fueledbycilantro · 2020-10-11T17:00:41+00:00

And even when they do something, if it’s only one gesture and not everyday things, it will never be enough. Emotionally stunted men tend to do one massive gesture and think theyve done diligence, like prince charming.

EmpressOfMyLife · 2020-10-11T22:28:58+00:00

1000000000%

"Be there" can be replaced with anything; take out the trash, marry you, be more responsible, date you, be a good father, get a license, get a job, etc.

If they wanted to _________, they would!

Title	This is true, yeah? Thoughts?
Author	alli4202
Upvotes	465
Comments	14
Date	October 11, 2020 1:05 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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