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[–]reddituser39682 48 points49 points50 points (6 children) | Copy Link
Men are literally fucking psychos. Holy shit. "I lied to her to get her to sleep with me but she's the dumbass for believing my lies".
Can you imagine being this evil and twisted?
[–]ScrappleSandwichesFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points (1 child) | Copy Link
“Now let me post it to Reddit so everyone will tell me what a great guy I am”
[–]_HEDONISM_BOTFDS STRATEGY COACH5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
He posted it to the wrong subreddit. He got ripped to shreds on there, but if he posted it to the adultery or affairs subreddit, or even the OPSEC one, he'd be cheered as a fallen hero by those guys on there, and he'd be used as an example for "not getting caught".
..... sigh.
[–]_HEDONISM_BOTFDS STRATEGY COACH6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
They are STRAIGHT UP admitting that they think like this. Men think like this. I do my best to post evidence of their mindset on here so women aren't disillusioned or using rose-colored glasses to examine their behaviors.
This is actually why I make the case for dating when you feel like you're sick of men. Being sick of men, and being emotionally nauseated with them, is a very effective "filter-remover". The gloves are off, the rose colored glasses have been burnt to a crisp, and you're ruthless, efficient, and not putting up with ANY bullshit.
[–]reddituser39682 3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
The thing that pisses me off the most is that this guy is married with kids. He gets the benefit of having an emotionally supportive wife and loving children when he's a huge piece of shit who deserves to die alone. But then again, that's most men.
[–]_HEDONISM_BOTFDS STRATEGY COACH3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
If his wife was doing FDS correctly, she'd divorce this asshole, GUT him in the divorce, and stick him with a fat Alimony bill plus Child Support.
Or straight up not even trip about his cheating and step out on the relationship herself and relegate the husband to the position of "roommate" and "sexless free babysitter" that she isn't fucking anymore, and he'd have to work on the marriage for YEARS before those privileges are earned back.
[–]Purple5091FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
No surprise there that's why now instead of being a pickme/used for sex I rather use such creeps for money...
[–]velocity2dsFDS Disciple38 points39 points40 points (0 children) | Copy Link
“But I do not feel bad”
Men be sociopaths
[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Great read into the mind of a man with bad character. Yes, I used her, I lied to her, I treated her as an object but it's her fault that she allowed it!
[–]_HEDONISM_BOTFDS STRATEGY COACH1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Great read into the mind of a man with bad character WHO GETS CAUGHT.
MILLIONS of men do this, daily, to their GFs, wives, and SO's without ever being caught because they are very good at lying, cheating, and covering their tracks. These are ONLY the ones who get caught. Everyone else quietly lurks and learns from their mistakes.
[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
"They were in their 30's they should of (sic) known better"
WOW. Just wow. I have no words.
[–]AverageToHotRuthless Strategist18 points19 points20 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow, the victim blaming is ridiculous and the fact that he can’t take responsibility for his own actions. It literally makes me sick. This is a child, not a man.
[–]PurblWaspFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points (1 child) | Copy Link
And then you realize the wife is still married to this excuse of a human being.
[–]husheveryoneFDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. The wife has no idea just how damn disordered and pathological this guy is. His post has a whiff of being written to curry favor with his wife, so he can keep eating the cake of having a wife appliancing mule at home. “It was just sex, she meant nothing to me, honey!!” When he has his next affair a few years from now, he’ll of course be blaming his wife for believing his current bullshit stories and not divorcing him right now.
[–]Winter_InevitableFDS STRATEGY COACH10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
the depravity!!!
[–]reddituser39682 10 points11 points12 points (3 children) | Copy Link
I fucking hate men.
[–]_HEDONISM_BOTFDS STRATEGY COACH2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
I STRAIGHT UP tell women that men mean everything they say (or don't) and do (or don't).
THEY KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING. Like this man said, it is up to YOU to ghost his ass and never look back. You KNOW they're like this. I do my best to post evidence of their bullshit and we discuss and dissect their strategies on here. We straight up rip their tactics to shreds and discuss effective counter strategies for navigating the dating world with your best interests in mind.
I CANNOT believe he tried to blame a woman for HIS depravity. The nerve of this man. Does anyone have a copy of the full post??
Edit: God bless the poster who shared the removed link. Ya'll are out here being the REAL MVPs.
Also, I found this nugget in the removed link (thanks, MVP <3 )
Being NAIVE and inexperienced was something here that the woman had in her 30s, which made her vulnerable to falling for his bullshit and believing his cheap, worthless words.... It prevented her from being able to ghost his ass early on, instead of falling for his bullshit. This is why I encourage women to date early in life and experience the nature of men, so they can learn to see through this bullshit at 17 and not in their 30s.
[–]reddituser39682 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.removeddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/dverdc/i_cheated_a_now_ex_coworker_i_care_about_my_wife/?
[–]_HEDONISM_BOTFDS STRATEGY COACH0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
you have SERVED ME WELL
[–]ponchoacademyFDS Disciple14 points15 points16 points (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm going to go ahead and say.. this is why you don't settle for being #2. This is why you don't get involved with another womans man. This is why you don't take his word for it that his wife/gf is so horrible and he loves you.
Of course he doesn't care about her. If he genuinely felt anything for her and was actually unhappy in his marriage, he would've had enough respect for her and his wife to end his marriage, then start a relationship with her.
By not doing that and carrying on with the affair, he clearly demonstrated that he had no respect for commitment, meaning what he's doing with her, he would eventually do to her even if he did eventually leave his wife. And also, that he thought so little of her he treated her like a side piece then went home...to his wife. And she settled for that. If she's actually hurting and in love and feels like a jilted lover, nah...I don't feel sorry for her at all.
Plot twist... While years later he's still thinking of how much he hurt this woman who believed his lies, she's already moved on to the next guy and enjoying vacations with some other married man who also thinks shes falling for his lies. This guy believes hes so wonderful he actually had some huge impact on her life, meanwhile she hasn't thought of him at all.
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[–]ponchoacademyFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup... Though this serves as a good cautionary tale to not settle for a married man, if I were a betting woman, I'd put my money on it thats not what happened here... She's just doing her thing and not worried about him at all.
[–]VeganRatGod 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
"I would never leave my wife for her.. no matter what I made her think or told her"