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[–]outside-perceptionFDS Newbie165 points166 points167 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
As a woman who was horrifically traumatised until leaving the home, and not knowing what a relationship was, and proceeding to get into something that perpetuated all that, I can say with absolute certainty men like that rely on women who have no sense of self to keep them company.
He even talks about the "level" of trauma that a man would want in a woman like...expecting us, as always, to be rehab centres for them but wants us to have just enough low self esteem to put up with their shit, but not enough trauma that it may surface outside of the bedroom.
[–]puppypugsFDS Newbie81 points82 points83 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
THIS! I had a terrible abusive childhood and I was also sexually assaulted as a teenager which I’m still dealing with now in my mid 20s. My ex was fine with my trauma in the bedroom. He’d be extremely dominant and I’d feel pressured Into agreeing. (I now know this is called “coerced consent”). I felt that I could only be loved if I was subjected to these degrading and disrespect acts, because I’ve never known love without abuse. He took advantage of my trauma for his own sexual satisfaction.
When it came to helping me deal with my trauma outside the bedroom, he’d completely ignore it and refused to talk about it because it was “difficult” for him. He used my trauma when it was convenient for him.
[–]FitncurlyFDS Apprentice34 points35 points36 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What a POS, I’m so glad you are free of him.
[–]puppypugsFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me too. FDS has changed my life and I will never tolerate LVMs again!
[–]giftofnocondemnationFDS Apprentice177 points178 points179 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
"the world needs girls....." Who needs broken girls? Disgusting pig men that need a human woman to use and abuse. Men do need women, but they are NOT entitled to one.
[–]munakhtylerFDS Newbie60 points61 points62 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
70% of men historically did not have offspring. They're the LVMs that we can get rid of.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are there articles about that? I'd like to read up on.
[–]tea_at_five1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Whaat 70%??
[–]munakhtylerFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The worthless ones
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Disgustingly, I think a lot of cultures share this belief although they won't admit to it (mine included). Parents will break their daughters down so their daughters will make terrified, obedient, docile slaves for some man some day.
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie79 points80 points81 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Oh I love my women with just a sprinkle of abuse and trauma but not too much!”.. brain dead idiots
[–][deleted] 82 points83 points84 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Knew a guy who said he "loved girls with low self-esteem because they'll never leave [him]." Then was shocked and pissed when I wouldn't date him. Guys like this are predators.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I was having a terrible bout with anxiety, once upon a time. My ex suddenly began to pressure me into moving in with him. Before this, he'd do the commitment-phobe act, like all women are put on this earth to trap men into relationships (little did he know I was just keeping him around because I was bored). I know what he was planning. I broke it off immediately. I almost had a nervous breakdown, but I still had the instincts to get rid of his ass. He wanted a pliable girlfriend who was too scared to leave him.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I read a lot of stories on the subs regarding parental abuse, and I am always anxious when I read someone talking about how their boyfriend (or girlfriend) "came to the rescue". I wonder how long it will be until that same person is posting on the justnoso sub or the domestic violence sub asking for help.
Abusive types like to predate on people when they are vulnerable.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I suspect he had darker tendencies that he was hiding behind a bumbler facade.
[–]venus_leeFDS Newbie53 points54 points55 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Can someone explain the mouth full of braces thing
[–]noclassheroFDS Newbie69 points70 points71 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Probably referring to how a lot of women in porn are styled to look like kids
[–]venus_leeFDS Newbie64 points65 points66 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh i suspected that, ew. If fuck grown women who act and look underage turns you on chances are actually fucking minors will turn you on.
[–]noclassheroFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, they'd 100% watch actual CP if it was widely available and legal.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I kind of what to know what this whole thread was referring to. It went from discussing career options to... something else.
[–]quintleFDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This was the thread!
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/gr9u14/whats_an_unfun_fact/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
[–]FitncurlyFDS Apprentice43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If women were this depraved (like most men) the world would’ve ended in a bloodbath of horror eons ago—we are humanity’s saving grace and only hope it seems. We simply are better than this and always have been.
[–]vp2407FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why you don’t tell male SO about trauma inflicted upon you by other men. They are unlikely empathize with you at best, and will turn it into their fetish and/or hold it against you at worst.
[–]CatsOnTheLaptopAgainFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is from that post about Piper Perry, isn't it? The assholes were out in droves on that one. Including a bunch who said that it was good her toddler had died, rather than have someone like her bring him up. Fking disgusting.
[–]bey124FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
WHAT?! They really are hopeless. How dare he, what the actual fuck
[–]Notaclarinet0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AKA “I’m okay with abuse as long as I’m the one benefitting from it”
[–]Fruit_Basket220 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is this a joke?
Is what a joke?
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