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[–][deleted] 133 points134 points135 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
It's actually really important for women to be comfortable giving ourselves orgasms.
Not as a "haha," to men, but because it improves our lives mentally and psychologically on its own.
[–]redbirdfliesFDS STRATEGY COACH76 points77 points78 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. Yes. And also, most men are a huge disappointment in bed and not worth the risk to our health and safety
[–]EquipoisonousFDS Newbie54 points55 points56 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A dick has never given me an orgasm
[–]pinkcloudzzzFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didn’t even know it was possible until FDS lol
[–][deleted] 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's possible when the guy wants to.
Most don't.
[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m perfectly comfortable giving myself an orgasm. But I prefer PIV orgasms (I know I’m in the minority) and unfortunately you need a P for the IV part 😭
The other commenter is correct tho even when you have a guy, it’s normally disappointing and not worth the risk.
[–]GoldandGlowingFDS Newbie92 points93 points94 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
“men in general”🤮
“dick”😒
“head” 🤔
“mutual respect and love with a HVM” 🥰
“toy sale” 🏃🏾♀️💸
[–]myousernameRuthless Strategist198 points199 points200 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
More like:
"men and dick" 🤢
"fantasy of genuine romantic love and intimacy" 🤔
[–]VikingDotterFDS Apprentice94 points95 points96 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Right? Dick does nothing for me, literally. If anything, it hurts and causes a burning feeling. I orgasm much better alone, when I take care of myself. Sex with a man can’t measure up to masturbation for me and I never crave sex with a man.
Intimacy and romance though? Yes. During all my years of being single, what I missed the most was hugs and cuddling.
[–]slythergin23FDS Newbie43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
*plastic dick 😁
[–]GoldandGlowingFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perfect emoji lmfao
[–]DivineTea43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gotta be a decently sized one though
[–]ShoshannaDreyfusFDS Apprentice43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll take a pass on both
[–]vntgRN90Throwaway Account19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A dick has never given me an orgasm however I've only had bad selfish dick (my ex husband). I do like the feeling and I do miss sex as in physical touch and intimacy. I do take care of myself pretty well though.
[–]eluriaeveFDS Newbie35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eh. I’m still turned off by both. It’s been almost a year since I broke up with the abusive narc LVM and I still want to vomit at the thought of any of it lol
[–]TerryTerrorCOFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m pretty convinced honestly that having a dildo is better than a male in your life. They don’t force you to have sex, don’t initiate when you’re clearly uncomfortable or having a bad day, they don’t insult you when you say no, they don’t make you do all the fucking housework then wonder why so you say no all the time because you’re tired of doing all the chores HE is meant to be doing and then you don’t feel up for sex...and they don’t fucking physically abuse you.
Dildos are better.
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