I’m a senior in undergraduate and I met a guy that was visiting his best friend (a mutual) at my college 2 months ago. He goes to another school in another state (NYC) but is from the state that i go to school in. We talked all night and exchanged contacts because I plan on moving to NYC after college. We have been in very light contact throughout these last couple of months.

I haven’t been stressing over him because dating isn’t really a priority right now. I currently think that if the right one comes along then ok but I’m not seeking anything.

This guy hasn’t shown me any red flags so far — innocent social media presence, same religion, isn’t known to sleep around, has a pretty good background on paper that I know of (not putting him on a pedestal).

He would send me photos when he’s out to eat at nice restaurants with his friends or brother saying he wishes it was me instead. This of course is all words and no action so far.

His spring break is next week and he’s visiting my college and is staying with his friend. He stated that he was excited to see me and he just asked me what days he should come next week (I’m assuming he’s visiting for me.) What strategies or tips do you have for when he visits? Right now I’m planning to kind of just sit back and see what he does. Im not going to mention that I’m going out and see what he plans without the factor or the implication of going out at night.