My boyfriend and I are of the same age and we are both very loving, romantic people who flatter and do things for each all the time. He has pursued me since day 1, planned the second date even before our first date, it has always been a surprise with the most romantic restaurants and resorts and flowers and has made it clear that he plans a future with me, he wanted us to be exclusive right after our first date. We have now started our long distance relationship. His previous long distance relationship(1 year ago) didn't work out very well and he has promised me that he will learn from his experience and be very patient with me, that he doesn't want to lose me. He talks about his idea of marriage and parenting (ofc I'm not in that picture because it is too soon to be discussing it, but he has brought up these topics once or twice so this is a good thing, right?) In short, he's known since we started talking that he wants to start something meaningful with me. He's a giver in bed, he is into soft bdsm kinks but the focus is always on my pleasure. However, in these kinks, he says some things which honestly I don't really mind, like calling me a good little girl, asking me to repeat certain things(like nobody gets me wet expect for him and that I belong to him) for him while going doing on me. He loves pleasing me while I validate him this way, but he also tells me how small I am, and how he loves my size(I'm 4'10) and how it's so easy to do things to me. Personally, I don't feel offended because he's a goofy, nerdy guy and I'm sure it's just harmless dirty talk. But I would like to know the FDS opinion on the same and how I should go ahead with my sex life(we haven't had sex yet, I don't plan to till we reach our six month mark).
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