When you have him blocked on everything for being toxic but he owes you money

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-01-14T17:16:37+00:00

Is that...sarcasm? Because tbh I would have interpreted that as a compliment.

YOU ARE INDEED A GODDESS. But you don't need men to tell ya that, especially this testerical fool.

cabernetmermaid · 2020-01-14T17:05:52+00:00

I picked up his cat from the vet, paid the extra balance, and brought her to his house, fed her and made sure she was all set with food & water before getting myself an Uber home. He was supposed to come over after work. Then he decided he’d rather go see his cat. Which I was a little miffed about, and honestly not even mad, just a little annoyed. I was just there, your cat is fine. which, fine, I was snotty about it. We spoke on the phone and I gave short, one word answers and basically told him to have a good night. This really didn’t have to be a fight. We could have left it at that and he could have said sorry you feel that way, I’ll see you another time, ‘I want to see you, but I’m worried about me cat.’ - But instead he got super angry, and flipped his shit that I was not being sweet and loving when I don’t feel like it. He told me I had no right to be upset, said he deserves a partner who does these things for him. He said he deserves someone who is nice to him on the phone and was pissed that I was giving him one word answers. He invalidated my feelings over and over and called me crazy (for wanting him to come over?? Wanting to see him? Oh the audacity!) He said, “I did nothing wrong and I will never believe I did.” So I finally blocked him. For the millionth time. And this morning he emails and asks, “so that’s just it?” (VERY minimal effort) And I just asked if he was going to pay me back. Immediately flips right back into name calling and said that im being shitty and cold. I told him I’m not shitty for wanting to be paid back. And stopped responding. That’s when this venmo comes in.

thewetdog_ · 2020-01-14T16:43:40+00:00

🤢

take1990 · 2020-01-14T19:38:08+00:00

Haha! He seems INTENSE.

itsirrelevant · 2020-01-17T14:46:06+00:00

I've had an ex do this, multiple times, in increasing amounts🤦 Felt bad keeping the money but my friends rationalized I earned it for dealing with him so long.

Title	When you have him blocked on everything for being toxic but he owes you money
Author	cabernetmermaid
Upvotes	130
Comments	24
Date	January 14, 2020 4:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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