Why do guys suck so much?

StarSweeper86 · 2020-08-09T04:48:00+00:00

Good for you for blocking him. I wasted 6 months on a guy who pulled the exact same shit with ignoring me when I tried to talk about things that were bothering me. The last straw that made me block him was when he took 3 days to reply to something I had been wanting to discuss, that I had already laid out my feelings about. He complained that I had written him a "novel" and that he didn't know what to say. Then he proceeded to spend the next 10 hours playing video games. And then the next two days after that as well 🙄

If they won't make time for you, they don't deserve your time.

curlygirl507 · 2020-08-09T05:19:43+00:00

Great job blocking him. Speculation would be a waste of time.

Btw, I think you meant that he did a 180. A 360 would be like he started off great, became horrible, and then went back to being great.

0kfornow · 2020-08-09T06:02:24+00:00

Because they honestly believe they are better than women. Unfortunately women know they're not valued and so act accordingly. It takes a mindshift not to put up with being devalued.

BasieSkanks · 2020-08-09T06:04:36+00:00

I’ve learnt not to get too invested in a man until at least a year, if not longer, as a result of this always happening to me. The truth is many men don’t have the skills to be a good partner in a relationship and they’re not interested in being better. They can hide this at the beginning, but give it a few months and the mask usually slips.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-08-09T06:21:28+00:00

I hate to say this but the truth is you that you wasted your own time. When he started being unavailable on weekends you should have dumped him. Or whatever the first sign was.

Read the handbook if you haven't already. At least it was only 5 months and not 5 years.

textbasedpanda · 2020-08-09T06:32:22+00:00

This is a good reminder that anyone can fake a personality for a few months. He was on his "best behavior" but couldn't keep it up anymore. Time to move on!

powerline2500 · 2020-08-09T05:56:51+00:00

Because they have such easy access to women. Thats the only reason. They dont have to put in effort to secure a woman. They can have sex, watch porn, dirty talk, gawk etc at women with zero effort on their part. So for alot of men, this has fulfilled they base human need for sex. A man that is willing to put effort into building and maintaining a relationship recogizes the need to companionship, love and affection as well as sex.

However I think most men literally just prefer the former. Like if they could live their life with a wet hole they could fuck whenever and however they wanted, and that also cooked and cleaned, many would happily forgo companionship and love.

The silicon doll industry needs to hurry up and get these dolls talking and walking so these losers can be taken off the market and can leave living women the fuck alone.

Title	Why do guys suck so much?
Author	throwitallawaydude_1
Upvotes	17
Comments	18
Date	August 9, 2020 4:32 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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