Ok so long story short, met a guy online, date 1 he seemed nice but there seemed an awkwardness and a missing spark. He msged once or twice as did u then I didnt hear from him so assumed it was done until I got a msg 4 days later chatting and looking for a second date. Date 2 we went for drinks we got on really well and conversation and kisses were flying. I had some lovely affectionate msgs for 3 days then nothing for a day then a msg asking to meet again.Date 3 was Sunday. we went for a walk (so no alcohol involved) and again he seemed awkward and i couldnt gauge him but we were getting on but I just had this feeling hes either socially awkward without alcohol or hes not that interested. Surprised then he kisses me later on I invited him back to mine (we were nearby anyway) and he started the moves. I knew where it was heading and I thought sod it I want some so we had sex. He stays about an hour then leaves,msging that he had got home safely. Hear nothing from him yesterday and against my better judgement msg him and he does get back to me but it's very brief. I know 99% hes doing the old hump and dump and I wont hear from him again now. I can't blame him for anything other than he knew from my profile I was looking for a relationship.he never lied or said he was but didnt indicate it was just casual either. I just wish i could not get emotionally invested when this happens and regret now having sex with him cause I just feel lousy. My friends are like enjoy it, do it more but I just cant seem to without feeling something!