We do not live in a 'Rape Culture'.

The term Rape Culture was originally coined to describe the prison system in which rape is seen as a corrective part of the prison process. You can see it all throughout popular media where prison rape is presented as something that just is, and often deserved and a hoped for outcome.

Feminists adopted the term simply because it's sexy, and works well for propaganda. I mean if you announced that you 'totally roofied that girl the other night' I can think of no mainstream situations where that would be applauded.

Same goes for 'triggering'.