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[+][deleted] [recovered] (93 children) | Copy Link
Hey! That's my wife except she is more pathetic and was attention whoring via Clash of Clans.
[–]miapy107 points108 points109 points (61 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] [recovered] (60 children) | Copy Link
Kids. If I divorce, she will get the kids at least half the time. Even best case scenario I get them 75%, she gets them 25...As things are now, I get to be with my children every day and get to minimize the bad influence she has over them. With a divorce, she would almost certainly move in with 'chad' immediately, which also puts my kids at a statistically higher risk of sexual abuse at the hands of 'chad.' Of course, she would hop from chad to chad (no Tyrones I think, she is mildly racist), which would dramatically increase the risk of abuse and neglect to my kids.
So...I suck it up and deal with a truly devastating situation for me personally for the next 6-8 years. Or until she divorces me, which I'll put off as long as I can.
My wife is the epitome of 'AWALT' in every way. it sucks.
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That may be true. I am well beyond caring at all who she sleeps with though. In a way, watching her self-destructive decisions makes me a little happy. :)
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I'd do anything for my children, including be a cuck. I figure if I can suck it up and deal with it for a while, they have a much better chance at emerging as adults strong and healthy. If I jump ship because I'm being hurt, I will lost a ton of the control and influence I have in their life.
I sometimes feel bad for it, but if my wife died tonight I doubt I would shed a tear for her. I would, of course, feel bad for my children but in my more honest moments I know that even they may very well be better off if that were the case. :(
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EXACTLY!!! If you stay, you're pretty much teaching your kids that it's okay to be cheated on and they will lose respect for y
That is a big concern for me and I weigh that into my decisions heavily. I honestly don't know what is best to do. I hate my cunt wife for making me even have to think about these things. How can women be like this!!?
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Nowhere near there. I'm in Michigan. Thanks though!
Not looking for sympathy though. In the big scheme of things I live a truly charmed life. My wife is really the only bad thing I have going. I have a good job, plus a good secondary income. My family (parents, brother/sister, etc) are all truly gems. I love my kids and they love me. If I believed in things like Karma I would think the universe sent my wife into my life to balance out the rest of it because I have it so very good!
And since I've found MGTOW and realized that my wife is simply acting on her nature, I am not nearly as hurt or angry as I was (don't get me wrong, I'm still pissed and am disgusted by her). The men of MGTOW are truly saving lives. Thank you brothers.
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This...All day this. I post here with the hope that some young man will read my story (or the thousands like it) and decide to go his own way.
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
That is truly excellent advice. I'll start trying to put even more aside. My wife can't think more than about 2 days into the future. If a judge starts talking alimony and I offer a decent amount, I bet she would jump at it as a lump sum.
Thank you!
[+]wisdomo [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Or she will wonder where that money came from and demand half of it right then. Better have a good story on where you plan to get it instead of implying you already have it.
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly. stay strong.
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
So. Many. Red. Flags....I really have nobody to blame but myself. Looking back it is so easy to see that she has always been AWALT.
I was so blue pilled and blind.
[+][deleted] [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Please do share those red flags. It will help younger, single men here when screening out for date-able women.
[+][deleted] [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
1 - She slept with me when we hardly knew each other at all.
2 - She had lots of 'just friends' who were guys that she liked to hang out with when I wasn't around.
3 - When we talked about our sexual past fairly early in the relationship she was very vague. She finally said the number was 10, so I now assume it was at least 100, (prolly way more now).
4 - She used to do a lot of drugs (nothing too hard core, pot, LSD, etc) but had stopped prior to us meeting.
5 - She hardly ever worked and just mooched off of people, others first, then me.
6 - She was 'aggressive' for lack of a better word. Today we see women constantly posting things like 'if you can't deal with me when I'm crazy, bla bla bla' - that was her exactly. Almost bragging about how she was a bitch.
That is about all I can think of off the top of my head, I'm sure there were many more. I can't even imagine what I was thinking back then. Clearly I wasn't.
[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude, those are some huge red flags. My analysis I know you didn't ask for but here it is anyway for the younger guys here who don't want to end up in the same situation:
1-never seriously date a girl who sleeps with you before being in a relationship and has done that before.
2-never seriously date a girl who has many male friends.
3-never date a girl who's had more than a few boyfriends. Ideally, only marry a virgin. Or else don't marry.
4-Never date a girl who has done any drugs.
5-This is a lesser red flag. I doubt most women want to work.
6-Never date a girl who prides herself in being a bitch.
Sorry to say this brah, but you were too desperate and overlooked HUGE red flags. I hope you're enjoying your life now, though.
[–]MyTwoCents1011 point [recovered] | Copy Link
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (18 children) | Copy Link
She is not yours its just your turn.
[+][deleted] [recovered] (17 children) | Copy Link
It isn't even my turn anymore. lol. I haven't slept with her in about 3 years (her choice). I just get the pleasure of supporting her. What an honor... /s
[+][deleted] [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
Does the length of the marriage not make alimony worse where you live?
[+][deleted] [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
I'm pretty sure the cut off line for that is 10 years. We've been married 14 so she'll get everything the state can pull from me. It sucks, badly, but the one thing I have going for me is that I am not materialistic at all so I can/will live happily with whatever is left over.
Also, from what my attorney says, infidelity will often eliminate alimony in our state and there is absolutely no doubt that there has been lots and lots of infidelity.
[–]miapy8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
She was on the phone with one guy when she thought I wasn't home and I overheard her conversation. There was no doubt that they were sleeping together.
I know where one guy lives. She said she was going to one place, I drove by the guys house and her vehicle was there.
Years ago I read through some of her FB chat logs and found some proof.
Those are the few that I can think of right now. There have been others.
[+][deleted] [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Are you serious??? 3 years??? Why ? why why why. I dont get it. Why would a man do this to himself? I would leave on day 1. Im being serious, can you explain me why you did that? Because i really dont understand, no offense.
[–]miapy2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
While I know staying isn't an ideal situation for the kids, I am honestly very worried about what would happen to them if/when she is out. I have seen the 'type' of men she is interested in, and my kids would be in very real danger of physical/sexual assault. At this point, that risk seems grater to me than the current situation they are in.
I'm not delusional to enough to think the situation I'm in and the kids are in is ideal or anything close to it. There are, of course, hundreds of factors I weigh in making my decision to stay. It sucks, and it especially sucks because I very well could be making the wrong decision. :(
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I almost ended up in this situation with some dumb slut I met online. "He's just a friend, and he doesn't even live in our continent". Yeah sure...straight into the garbage can she went.
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
I'm kinda at the point where I think I need to go through my wife's phone and see wtf she's upto
not feeling so trusting anymore after joining this sub
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
holy fuck sorry man that's shitty.
My wife still leaves her phone laying everywhere but I may as well just have some peace of mind and extract that shit and figure it out.
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Yet the time wasted is not comming back
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I'm married to video games, and I'll never let something as shallow and temporary as a relationship come between us.
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Why do you keep mentioning wife and not ex wife? You're still with that woman?
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If it truly was a torrid, hot, steamy love affair online you can be damn sure that guy has nudes of your wife and possibly videos of her doing stuff.
Sorry, brah, but you got cucked. I basically avoid any girl that has contacts of such kind.
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