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[–]TheHappyPie73 points74 points75 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
would be more accurate if the woman got gradually larger after marriage...
[–]smfuel877 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
OMG you should see how my ex hamstered out.
But her new husband is huge too. So by comparison I think she just thinks she's the same as when she was in high school.
[–]Tetedapro3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
heh x hamster
[–]smfuel872 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
HAha.. Missed that when I wrote it.
[–]Tetedapro0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
sorry lolll
[–]User-31f64a4e0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or as Terrence Popp likes to say, pulled the pin on the fat grenade
[–]roxon8942 points43 points44 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
To be fair, his paycheck isn’t a net zero. He had a direct deposit made of 416.73. Still total bullshit tough.
[–]swhitney18630 points31 points32 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Can you imagine working 84 hours in 2 weeks just to make 400 fucking bucks? How the fuck is anyone supposed to live on this shit? I mean I know about divorce rape, but the more I see, the more infuriated I become.
[–]Chillz718 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
But the paystub shows FOUR support orders... the man was playing and now has to pay up! Dont EVER play with chicks...EVER 😉
[–]swhitney1865 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I mean, shit... maybe its just because of my own situation, but imagine the poor bloke was just trying to start a family and do what's right and she ran off, and now he's stuck unable to even live. im mgtow because of shit exactly like this thats happened in my life. sadly, I was late to the party. I love my kids to death, but since I can't even see them anymore, im seriously kicking myself in the ass for all of the choices I made just trying to be a family man.
[–]Chillz716 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That suks man. My ex tried that but I wouldnt go away. Now their in their late teens early 20's and the oldest want to come live with me. They have seen thru their moms BS. Stick by your kids and be the better person! It really does work out in the end.
[–]swhitney1865 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
thats the plan. sadly, their mum thinks its funny to fuck with me. she's coerced quite a few people into breaking into my place and harassing me. still working on getting a lawyer to get shit straightened out.
glad to hear it worked out for you though! not often you hear of a positive outcome from situations like this
[–]QuasisLogic1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
lol fuck him bro. He’s too stupid to see the light. Let his mistakes be our lessons.
[–]OneTaoThree17 points18 points19 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This doesn’t have to happen if you remain in control and cut the process off at step 3.
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[–]OneTaoThree3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok, well, we’ll just throw this in with all the millions of other situations where smarter people tend to do better in general.
[–]Light_Dark_Choose1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Step 3 can still trigger family law through cohabitation. Heck, even step 2 can lead to a future #Metoo.
[–]Shit-from-a-whore 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cut the process at step 0, don't even temped dating.
[–]MarketWatcher945615 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The violent truth of poor decision making.
[–]Black-Goku6913 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is the sad reality for a lot of men. It's a shame our society just doesn't give a shit.
[–]BonelessSkinless5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Our society actively enforces it
[–]lazymonk212 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If every man waked up to the truth, the society would collapse.
[–]NeverNeverLandIsNow8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
If I got to the point I made nothing after working my ass off I would try going off grid before blowing my brains out, but now that I am MGTOW monk I will not have to worry about that, well at least not from marriage. Never doing that shit again.
[–]SandwichAutist 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
They've thought of that. If a judge believes you're working below your historical earnings or quitting/getting fired to avoid paying child support, they can hold you in contempt of court. I.e arrest your ass. Your best bet would be to stay in total compliance, dont even hint that youre upset, scrounge as much cash as possible, and book a one way trip to a country with no extradition treaty or that's too poor to give a fuck. Philippines, Cambodia, Mongolia. Russia China even Thailand if you could disappear and somehow buy a new identity. But you would be watching your back the rest of your life and you could never return to the US
[–]pauljs754 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Scuba accident" when "visiting friends" on a trip. But nobody else knows about boat #2 that isn't heading to the U.S.
I think that's an exit strategy I've heard about.
If it goes right, you're free. If it goes wrong, then your body parts may be on the black market.
[–]rkelly1114 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
China I would avoid. Maybe hongkong but mainland China is a nope.
[–]SandwichAutist 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Different set of rules. Just don't talk shit about the gov, keep your head down. Stay out of trouble.
[–]spiesvsmercs1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seriously, what horse shit is that?
Oh, you COULD be making more, so fuck you!
Don't get me wrong, if the kids were starving or something AND the woman was taking care of them most of the time, you should support them if able... but just "you COULD be making more!"
Fuuuuuck that. That's where you see the government wanting you on the plantation.
[–]the_murder_of_crowe6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"If you are in here tonight and you have never contemplated suicide, you've never truly been in love. If you're in here tonight and you have never contemplated murder, you've never been divorced."
-Christopher Titus
[–]Harrybud076 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
that was me minus the bullet to the head... I have learned very well within the family law and the system use to chain the man to the responsibility, regardless of the females action...
after going through a divorce in canada. Its an absolute trapped.... it will take a lot of time to heal, from a male who has gone through the process.... i did tell you, if you are serious about marriage get advice from divorce lawyer before considering. and if you think consultation with lawyer would be too expensive, think again, he will be your best pay friend for years once the divorce's set in motion...
[–]ZombiNawhal3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks for the advice man.
[–]Harrybud071 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
glad i am able to
I did wish I got the proper information before, be led into the lions den...
[–]pnwhomebrewer4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can skip the dating and first kiss part cause every girl gives it up on the first date
[–]xMB995 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I like how the women is the one committing the abuse and she still walks away with the kids.
[–]c0c41n334 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is what happened to my dad but he’s not dead yet surprisingly
[–]KarosGraveyard4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“yOu jUsT goTTa FiNd tHe rIghT wOmAn yOu inCeL”
[–]Griever1143 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It still bothers me that men even consider offering themselves. I would leave the country or go off the grid. Fuck the government and anyone else.
[–]jargonoid7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even at my lowest, I never considered killing myself. I fantasized about killing her every day though.
[–]CastandRefused2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn right.
[–]0signal02 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Anyone else lost it at "What the fuck?"
[–]awesomepiewolf 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cant you just avoid that by not having kids instead of not marrying
[–]theencomputers1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
actually under the chin is the worst place to shoot your self because you narturally flinch when you pull the trigger (plz dont ban me). Instead the timple of your head is the best place and the roof of the mouth is seccond best while third is your forehead.
[–]The_Dank_Astero0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
wot
[–]busterninjasnake0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Break the cycle.
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[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
There are 2 paths.
I dont wanna risk my precious life so #2 all the way
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[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What the hell... Does being alone mean that I treat females like shit?
[–]cyborg_type_darkness5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wether we fuck females or not doesn't matter. Prove to us why this post is false. No stupid person is going to jump into a minefield and hope that the mines won't explode.
[–]throwawayofthedayhah17 points18 points19 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yep that's totally why my girlfriend of 12 years cheated on me. Because I was a decent human being who provided her with a house, supported her while she completed her education, comforted her, pleased her, surprised her with gifts.
Decency gets you nowhere. You will be resented for your decency.
[–]lastlaugh1002 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank god she couldn’t divorce rape you.
Not even Jon hamm could keep a woman from leaving
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[–]Umas1514 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
" just be a decent human and life will work out for you "
Then next post
" sometimes things don’t work out "
I know it's trolling, but be at least consitent.
[–]cyborg_type_darkness4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do you realize how stupid the statement he made: "be a decent human being" is.
It proves that op's post is true but he is hoping for that special luck scenario where his marriage will succeed without failure. Trust me, even if he had a marriage success rate of 10%, his stupid ass would still risk his life for it. He agrees to the consequences of a divorce but he is in denial. "It won't happen to me," he thinks. Yet there were people before him that thought the same.
He will be doomed and be another statistic if he keeps being ignorant.
[–]freezingsama1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the hard part that normal people can't swallow sadly. They would be in denial up to the point they get burned, some even more foolish than others who voluntary repeat the same mistakes. It takes a lot to accept and get away from the programming that's been done over the years.
I'm glad I got out of it because I've been having a hunch before that these people might be right. The only problem was I didn't really understand what MGTOW was and took me a year before it all fell down in place.
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