Father distances himself from 14f after finding out shes not his bio-daughter. R/relationship argues over if the cuckold or mother are more to blame

MGTOWManofMystery · 2017-11-04T05:48:13+00:00

It's amazing how most posts berate the non-dad. He is fully within his rights to distance himself from his non-daughter. Amazing how they think he is obligated to be super-human (or super-cucked) and continue to think of the young girl as his daughter. Shows how cucked and bluepilled Western society has become.

andreas-mgtow · 2017-11-04T06:45:51+00:00

Lying whore destroys the lives of both, a young child and a Man who thought he was a father. No consequences. It's still amazing more Men aren't just walking away.

gods_bones · 2017-11-04T06:18:47+00:00

He doesn't owe that cheating whore or her crotchturd bastard a single thing. Live for yourself dude. You only got one life to live, don't waste it on some worthless cuntholes.

Jonlife · 2017-11-04T07:50:57+00:00

I love how the cheating whore is all but forgotten. Like they realize once that guy leaves and distances himself from her... They know that she's fucked. That her mother is and will always be a nervous wreck. Kids raised by single mothers never had a chance. That guy is an idiot to stick around. This "man up" shaming in which this bullshit society loves to instill upon men using mob rule is evil as fuck.

Walking away is his only chance of getting out of this situation alive

Sol_Install · 2017-11-04T08:08:50+00:00

That is what being a man is. You're expected to always benefit the woman and HER child. It's never about the man. No one cares about how things impact man. Men don't have humanity. Men are expected to just raise kids that are not their own. Support women no matter what. That is what being a "Real Man" is supposed to be.

You see this repeatedly. No matter what, it's never about the man. Never. If a man realizes that the child isn't his? He is still forced to pay child support. He can be raped and he's forced to pay child support. Men are expected to just suck it up and deal with it.

Shnook82 · 2017-11-04T08:10:33+00:00

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Itisforsexy · 2017-11-04T08:59:28+00:00

It is shocking indeed, to be reaffirmed every day with stories like this, so plainly showcasing gynocentrism. 80% of the comments are either supporting the mother and ignoring the pain of the dad, or deflecting blame away from the mom to the dad.

This is 100% the mom's fault. She should be shamed to hell in these comments. Absolutely, it's horrible for the daughter in this context. She did nothing wrong. But I can't blame the guy at all for leaving and cutting contact. That's 14 years he wasted, all of that time energy and money invested into a false family. Her actions are demonic.

Seriously, ask yourself what kind of person you have to be to lie to someone for 14 years over something this vital? I can't bring myself to understand how a human can do that.

isuckatgamingandlife · 2017-11-04T10:06:02+00:00

Woman cheats -> man blamed

logic

DereIzNoPoint · 2017-11-04T10:14:10+00:00

Top comment calls her 'honey'. Does that word ever make anyone feel better? Cringe level over 9000.

Not really the biggest take-away from all this, but, meh.

TB409 · 2017-11-04T09:57:17+00:00

She's like that. Nothings ever her fault. I actually feel like she's taking it out on me for her relationship going to shit? I haven't mentioned it in my post, but I really fucking hate her.

Glad she's not blaming him for moms narcissistic tendencies.

dirtydog113 · 2017-11-04T12:09:54+00:00

As he is not a relative of the girl , he could be charged with any sort of number of offences , including being labelled a pedo if he shows affection towards her. Distancing himself is a safe and logical option .

Banincoming · 2017-11-04T15:33:01+00:00

Easy for women to say "blood doesn't make a family, he's your real dad!" when 100% of the time their children are their blood.

matthevv3 · 2017-11-04T06:07:51+00:00

I fully blame the mother here for being a piece of shit but at the same time the child doesn't deserve any of this. For 14 years the Father raised the daughter as if she were his own and the daughter believed the Father to be hers as well. After 14 years of bonding the child is still the father's even if they aren't related.

I get the initial reaction of the father to distance himself after being betrayed but he should be against the mother, not the daughter. That is just unfair to the daughter. It is just a shit situation with no easy options. I can't blame the father for how he reacted but it is pretty cold to do that to the child.

Man, such a shitty situation, fuck that "mother". Just imagine what it would be like if this happened to you and now your "father" wants nothing to do with you, it would be awful.

HiInternetStrange · 2017-11-04T09:42:52+00:00

WTF? The dad doesn't have to accept, she is literally NOT HIS KID. Why are these people giving he blame for any of this? Just because donating blood can save lives doesn't mean you have to do it. People in that R/relationship don't know how the world works.

lostapwbm · 2017-11-04T15:44:32+00:00

All I can say is that I really hope your dad is only distancing himself from you because he's really hurt. That's not an excuse, but people sometimes do hurtful and stupid things when they are hurt and angry.

Or, because he's a grown man and has the right to associate, or not associate himself with anyone he wishes.

I hope he can come to his senses and realize that blood does not make family.

Apparently women get to arbitrarily cobble together whatever they consider to be a "family" based on as many lies as they choose to tell to as many people as they want.

You are the same person you were before. If he can't see that, that's on him. Again, you did nothing wrong and you don't deserve this.

Deserve has nothing to do with it. You think you are his kid despite not being related to him. He thinks you aren't. What right do you have to impose your definition on him? What right do you have to his time?

Not only do you feel the loss of your dad and are grieving for that, but you also feel abandoned and rejected.

Isn't interesting how when men get rejected, we are just to told to accept it and that women don't owe us anything? That even when rejection is forced on us by parental alienation and denial of visitation "rights" we are simply told by women to "fight harder"?

Men, for their own sake, need to adopt a colder view of women and "their" children. If a man's money is good enough for her but not his time, he needs to treat that woman and that child like just another bill, no different than taxes. And if that kid comes around looking for his time, he should just say straight up, "I'm not your father."

"But, mom said you were my dad!"

"The bitch lied, like she did about everything else. If I was your dad, I would be able to see you when I want and teach you what I thought you ought to know."

"But you paid child support!"

"Yep, to stay out of jail. I paid a bill to the state so they wouldn't lock me up, just like I pay income taxes so the state doesn't lock me up. Nothing else."

Men should stop negotiating with these emotional terrorists and just cut every tie they legally can for their own sake.

deuslucis · 2017-11-04T16:07:16+00:00

Annnnd now I'm banned from r/relationships

Averageeurodude · 2017-11-04T11:47:51+00:00

Yet another example of how men get the blame for women pulling their usual shit.

Yeah I feel bad for the daughter, she did not deserve to have a lying bitch of a mother, but how can anyone blame the dad for walking away. I would have done the same.

If that woman is capble of lying about something like that for 14 years, think about what else she might be lying about.

AWALT...

38SPL · 2017-11-04T14:50:26+00:00

I played the step-dad role once during my BP days. The relationship didn't work out and I was devastated at the time, but now I am SO relieved. Never again.

SssanL · 2017-11-04T10:35:50+00:00

Hahahaha lets sit back and watch the shit show.

Mapispema-ta · 2017-11-04T08:52:22+00:00

These cucks never learn.

ShrunkenHed · 2017-11-04T18:39:24+00:00

Instead of forcing men into indentured servitude for stuff like this, they need to criminalize women who do it. It's a uniquely female ability to lie and cuck and trick a man into living a lie, supporting something which is not his.

It amazes me that courts enforce this behavior when they should be criminalizing it.

If you look at any other aspect of life, penalties for theft and false imprisonment would be dealt with severely. Yet, in this instance, it's supported by everyone, even blue pill males.

But the women today will not pay the price. That will be for their sons and daughters and the world at large.

I look at my nieces and realize they have a lifetime of confusion and misery ahead of them. The blowback will fall right in their laps.

bastardstepchild · 2017-11-04T14:50:59+00:00

LOL post is locked, like anything else that non-feminists might have a non-PC say in. Never change, reddit.

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fredanderssen · 2017-11-04T16:16:01+00:00

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JagsDontCare · 2017-11-04T10:15:14+00:00

My thought process is he's already legally entangled. If I was in his shoes, I'd be the best father I could be until she turned 18, then if I felt I needed to make distance, I'd do it then. If there was "truth" to be told, I'd wait until 18 to tell her as well.

I suppose the thing is to put yourself in the child's shoes. If you were 14 again, and you found out your "Dad" is not your Dad, would you want him to walk out on you?

I realize this is screwed up no matter what road is taken, but I suppose it's about honoring what you think is right here. I can't speak to what this dude thinks is right, but if you are going to raise a kid, and the Mom has proven to be a THOT, and if you care about this kid, my thought is to show proof of life on how to be the better example. Is it taking a hit? Yes. But sometimes the best decision is a compromise of only bad choices.

ChicDoom · 2017-11-04T18:04:54+00:00

Or kept close and pulled a Woody Allen in two more years

RPangerandacceptance · 2017-11-04T16:38:17+00:00

I totally get the MGTOW reaction to this, let's be clear on that. However, I have 2 kids 15 and 17 and if I found out at this point that my ex lied to me about their conception, it would have very little bearing on things at this point. It probably would have when they were infants, but after a certain point, like with dogs, we imprint. I would kill or die for those kids, without hesitation. At 14 years old, I can't see abandoning them, regardless of blood and the fact that their mom was a whore.

sandal_on · 2017-11-04T17:46:17+00:00

The mother is to blame here but!

But seriously why abandoning the daughter? She did nothing wrong and just because she isn't biologically his daughter doesn't result that their bond as daughter-father is "fake" ir invalid. What if she turns out to be better daughter than his own biological children huh?

Very bad of the father to leave the 14 girl, he needs to understand that by doing this he is hurting an innocent person that views him as her father. Fucking seriously all those 14 years he has seen the girl growing up and all the bonding he just throws it at from the window in a second.

This post seriously is bad because the daughter is doing as any child would do! She just wants her only father back! She saw her only father leave her and for what? Because her mother's evil deed? One should try to convince the father to not abandoning the girl because seriously she is just a child that wants her father.

s0ma_ · 2017-11-05T04:39:09+00:00

the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah; just quaint fairy tales. pay no heed to that indoctrination/propaganda.

fuck all you want. everyone and everything. dont let these bullshit
stories, scare you from being who you are. do what you want.
there are no consequences.

how dare anyone even question what is right or wrong for you.

do whatever feels good to you. you only live once.

mwuaahhahahaha

i will be over here, with popcorn

Title	Father distances himself from 14f after finding out shes not his bio-daughter. R/relationship argues over if the cuckold or mother are more to blame
Author	deuslucis
Upvotes	120
Comments	117
Date	November 4, 2017 5:15 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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