Got Stood Up Tonight

MrMagtow · 2019-11-13T04:57:21+00:00

"Cool, I can stay home, play games, and watch movies on my own schedule. I've been meaning to catch up on my backlog."

So a passive aggressive come-back that adds to her attention-seeking? Sense of entitlement much? :D

KnightBlue2 · 2019-11-13T03:50:15+00:00

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kayfab · 2019-11-13T06:41:57+00:00

I have been exactly where you are now at 41y old... i am 47 now, i have not gone on a date in 5y, its just a fucking waste of time.

Online dating and all social media are too, so much work for so little in the end. Last Saturday i went to fuck a new escort i was out by noon picked up my mom and grand mother we went to eat ribs at Barbie's i was back home just in time for the UFC ppv and finish it off by playing Uncharted 4 all night.

Women are shit online is worst so much work to try to pick up a below average single fat mom... sorry i am done with this shit.... plus go out live you can pick up hotter looking women then waste time chatting with useless cunts online.

Wardedbilledanteater · 2019-11-13T03:47:08+00:00

Not going out to eat saved you money. This is actually not a bad thing.

MeGoingTOWin · 2019-11-13T03:55:36+00:00

You nailed it: it's about being good with yourself and not needing validation of others to be happy!

OldRoad · 2019-11-13T07:45:59+00:00

After my last romantic relationship ended, I was a single guy living in a big city. You know what I used to like to do? In the big city, I could get all kinds of food delivered up until like 3 AM or 4 AM on Friday and Saturday nights. I would get going playing my favorite video game at the time online for hours, late into the night. At some point, I would have a one-person FEAST, anything I wanted: pizza, soda, wings, ice cream, french fries, fresh burritos, whatever. These were independent restaurants, and the food was awesome, even at 4 AM in the morning. Usually I ordered too much and didn't need groceries for the next couple of days. Not exactly healthy eating, but I've found a way to lose the weight now. I really miss that part of living in the big city. I had so much fun with those times, and yet I was all by myself!

I got pushed out of the dating world by years of bad experiences with it. I think that the dating system is broken, because it shouldn't be so difficult. For guys, I think it's a Chad's game. I could see the stuff that we read about in Japan, with people staying single, spreading to other countries -- because once a guy walks away from dating because he can't get it to work out well, he's going to learn to have fun staying single. Combine that with the MGTOW philosophy spreading, and I think those guys won't be able to be brought back into dating, if and when the women ever decide that they are open-minded to dating them. Then, I think we are going to have lots of single middle-aged and old people in the future.

Also: It's also fun to go grocery shopping in the middle of the night. You get almost the whole store to yourself. With the empty store, and the pop songs from the years past playing on the speakers, it's almost a dream-like state. I've done that and boiled up some lobster at 2 AM or 3 AM in the morning, when I got back home, before. It's FUN, as single guys can know!

MadRussian07 · 2019-11-13T04:30:30+00:00

Do you play borderlands 3?

Friendly-Casper · 2019-11-13T08:35:59+00:00

Yet, so many of them keep asking "where have all the good men gone?" without admitting they're the ones running more and more towards philosophies like MGTOW. Then they complain about that too. Go into other subreddits like r/PurplePillDebate/ and many others. They honestly have a complete disconnect with reality that it's beyond laughable at this point.

DronePilot19 · 2019-11-13T10:43:23+00:00

I needed to read this today. Thanks brother for sharing.

eduardkoopman · 2019-11-13T08:53:04+00:00

She wants to get dinner, so we make plans

Dating is also, men showering women with free stuff like: dinners, gifts, outings, events, etc..When I still dated (8 years ago orso), I already had the rule that I wouldn't do outside dinner for dates. Outside dinner was reserved for actual gf's; women I already fucked.

Now since, my lasy LTR ended, 4 years ago.
I decided monk mode, and thus I haven't done anything.
Sometimes, due to sex drive. I consider retrying dating, to try to get some poon. But I hate the concept of being another dude women can add to the list of men wanting to shower herwith free stuff like: dinners, gifts, outings, events, etc.. And then, I decide not to.
I hate it so much also, because women demanded and have gotten equal (if not better) education and carreer chances as men.

The escort, hooker route. When it comes to just sex (and one isn't looking for validation also). Starts makeing more and more sense, to me.

I assume, only very attractive, famous or desireable men, can get away with getting sex without going on dates (aka, paying/showering women with "stuff").
But that doesn't seem like an option for me. Since my best feature (my looks) is a decent bit above the average of guys my age but not on the very attractive/model level, and in other ways I'm average (status, money)

Gronfella · 2019-11-13T15:13:47+00:00

Give yourself better things to do like lifting or creating a second source of income and after some time you'll care even less if you're stood up and are far less likely to be stood up in the first place. Not a dig at you just some advice to ensure you get even hotter girls in the future.

ValhallaBoundBoy · 2019-11-13T16:59:19+00:00

Why do girls do this so much? Especially when you give them multiple outs. Just say 'sorry I can't make it'.

og_snake · 2019-11-13T20:12:59+00:00

Very nice, MGTOW has really helped me learn to enjoy my own company and be satisfied without the attention of women. It's so freeing once you are able to truly say you dont give a shit about getting attention or validation from women.

Loganphoenix122 · 2019-11-13T07:49:55+00:00

You showed weak, needy and approval seeking behavior by asking if you guys are still on. You’re saying that you would be anxious about the meeting up, while you shouldn’t give a crap and just enjoy yourself if you meet some one. Always make sure you go out to do something you wanted to do for a long time. That way you’re at least enjoying yourself. And never go out and just eat. It will make sure you’re the one who is paying for it. Just focus on yourself first don’t worry about one, love yourself first. Read the 3% men by Corey Wayne if you like rucking gurls. Its best to invest in yourself

And btw you stood yourself up by your own weak, needy, approval seeking and passive aggressive behavior and your own self image.

scaramellozzi · 2019-11-13T09:16:17+00:00

Women want the non sexual attentions and use sex as bait.

The moment they get validated they don't need the normal guy and will look for chad with renowed self confidence.

Cheeto717 · 2019-11-13T11:20:37+00:00

Your response was kinda petty

tw-1234a · 2019-11-13T13:08:25+00:00

I believe women do this sort of thing to see if they still know how to manipulate a man.

ervinhass · 2019-11-13T13:38:47+00:00

You showed weakness by asking if it was still on, you need to be assertive and just say meet you there at 8, its sad but its how bitches work

ppdeny · 2019-11-13T04:39:06+00:00

Im glad you happy. But MGTOW means we went our own way. No women, no snapchat, no games played by woman.

Title	Got Stood Up Tonight
Author	KnightBlue2
Upvotes	92
Comments	49
Date	November 13, 2019 3:40 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/dvlu0k/got_stood_up_tonight/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/got-stood-up-tonight.647499 https://theredarchive.com/post/647499

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