I might shortly be joining you.

I don't know what to do anymore.

My girlfriend is turning into an uber feminist. She regularly comes out with the mantra that the majority of men are evil rapists and abusers and when I argue back and point out all the decent men in her family, her life and the decent men I know, she just says at least one of those people I know will be an abuser. She believes in the "Believe All Women" mantra to the point that she doesn't care that the men in her life might be collateral damage, because the good of women coming forward outweighs the possibility that a good man might be damaged forever. It's just redressing the balance in her eyes.

She then claims foetuses are just parasites (despite me having pointed out the dictionary definition of a parasite). Thinks that men are 100% responsible for unwanted pregnancies (tell that to Alyssa Milano), that the woman doesn't need to take any responsibility.

She accused me of mansplaining for asking an innocuous question about what I thought was hairspray that turned out not to be hairspray. Then in the next breath, when I was talking about what needs to go where for our upcoming holiday, instead of asking me what cabin baggage was, she just shouted at me for not explaining clearly enough. I didn't know she had no knowledge of what cabin baggage was.

The other day she was showing me a poem she had written, and I tell her how great it was, but there was a small spelling mistake, and she gets emotional. I leave her to it. No way I need to apologise for that. I tell her she's making it more than what it is, she criticises me all the time. She tells me she doesn't criticise, and when she does she apologises, and I can't tell her how to feel.

Except when I get upset when she's done something, she switches off, disassociates, and tells me how to feel.

I can't take it. She doesn't see sense. Can't have a normal conversation with her. Want to end it. Can't. Feel trapped. Im exhausted.