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[–]Xtr81[S] 27 points28 points29 points 10 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
About hour ago my employer was informed, that I'm an active member of "the hate movement" known as MGTOW. I will probably lose my job, because as I was told it will be treated as "intentional misconduct".
Just a little reminder for you guys, that you're not anonymous.
Keep it up and never stop, but be careful.
Don't worry about me. I'll find my way to still support it.
[–]RaptorLog 13 points14 points15 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why I'll be a passive supporter, and I'll work my way to financial independence, and live the rest of my life not giving a fuck.
[–]thoriumpoweredwatch9 points10 points11 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How the fuck did that happen?
[–]ztsmart8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Why would your employer care?
[–]redchords13 points14 points15 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Political correctness is God now.
[–]ztsmart6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
The dude is in mgtow, not the klan. What is offensive about mgtow besides some idiot calling it a hate group? Surely most companies would not give a shit about the angry SRS birds bitching to try to get somebody fired
[–]redchords16 points17 points18 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Mgtow offends women. Offended women hurt profits. Mgtow isn't a hate group, but because it offends women it will be treated like one. It's all about $$$.
[–]ztsmart2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So why do women hate that men are just opting out and for example refusing to marry? Is it that they only hate it when men who have resources they want do this? Presumably they would not care about some loser going off on his own and giving a big "Fuck You" to women/society.
What is offensive about "I don't want you"?
[–]Sn0man7914 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Women are multiple personality batshit crazy sociopaths with congnitive dissonance disorder - have you not learned this yet?
[–]redchords12 points13 points14 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because women really believe, from the bottom of their hearts, that if a man doesn't want to associate with women romantically it is because he hates women. Basically, they need to believe that mgtow are losers or hateful, evil men so that they don't have to objectively assess their own flaws as a group. Feels over reals.
I don't think women who attack mgtow do so because they hate it, but do so because they subconsciously need to feel super valuable and mgtow threatens that.
[–]FreeNClear321 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not conforming to societal views about how men should be is "intentional misconduct."
[–]oldredder0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
why? The nature of women is to expect men to give in to slavery, hand over all their money and autonomy and fuck on command no matter what. Not allowed to say no.
The very thought we'd say No is OFFENSIVE like using the N word, to women.
Women don't believe men should have any power of consent.
[–]good_man_gone 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just wanted to take a piss but now I will piss on your employer and the pathetic fuckers who took the time to dox you. keep it strong no backing down!
[–]bricardo 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How the fuck is that legal? It's not a hate group. we don't go around burning crosses or harming anyone.
[–]Villaintine2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But what action is there to take? He could pay for an attorney, possibly lose and be on the line for however much that costs him, or he could win and wind up back but on the shitlist all the way up the chain of command. There's no winning.
[–]oldredder2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think a good start would be to say you have no idea what any of this is about and you're absolutely sure you belong to no hate groups.
I'd tell them that taking action against you for a fictional accusation is grounds to open a giant lawsuit and just take all your income up front as a payout for wrongful dismissal, slander and libel.
Admit nothing.
And most of all when these things happen do not EVER write about them online, here especially!!
The very nature of talking about it here only proves it's real when you should be denying.
[–]nixonblack 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Explain how they found out. I don't see any hint of your real name in your username. Why not just deny, deny, deny?
[–]Darth_Bicycle0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good luck mate! What has the world turned into when bachelors are now perceived as being part of a "hate movement"?
[–]thrownaway_MGTOW0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If they do, get an attorney and threaten a lawsuit for "discrimination". Seriously... you'll have grounds for it; and the most likely outcome will be an offer of a "settlement" along with a mutual "gag order" agreement that will restrict what they can ever say about it in terms of job references.
[–]Spungo1 28 points29 points30 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you do get a warning or fired, I think it is your moral duty to become a living nightmare to that company. File a complaint with the department of labor, contact occupational health and safety, contact police, contact lawyers. Get every possible government organization going after that company. Your job is not done until the boss commits suicide or the company goes under.
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 10 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
In general, never have a connection between your username and real name on the Internet, regardless of what you post about, work as or anything else. There is no advantage in it.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
is that how they doxx people? they just check fro any personal information you leave behind?
[–]Diogenes--6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
That's one way. The other is that reddit is run by super-liberal kill-all-men types in San Francisco. They would gladly do it, and they have your IP address.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
voat is starting to look more appealing every day.
[–]csehszlovakzeThe Hungarian2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
doesn't voat get DDoS'd every other day?
[–]ChipOffMyShoulder 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a small issue
[–]oldredder0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
switching sites increases your exposure instead of decreasing it.
You need to hide the IP for good.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can do that? ill google how to do that thank you.
[–]oldredder1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
not mine! I use proxy tunnels and vpn's at all times. Reddit is too sketchy to be allowed to know my IP address, name, address, employer, etc.
[–]thrownaway_MGTOW1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is also the far EASIER and more common version... someone "reddits" from their work computer and/or through their companies network system.
Many such systems not only filter and control, but also maintain a log/record of every main URL that is accessed. In all likelihood anyone in the IT department (or at least those who comprehend how the systems work) would be capable of accessing records.
And of course very often that level of "investigation" isn't even necessary... after all people will leave browsers & windows/tabs open on their computer when they go on a break, or are attending some meeting, or even just step out of their cubicle. Not to mention that not everyone is savvy enough to even surf in "private" mode, or to erase their browser history.
Ergo if you leave a window/browser open, and you're logged in under a reddit account -- even if that account is not open to /r/MGTOW, then nevertheless once someone has the account name, they can easily go on reddit and review the history of that account (with the exception of private reddits, all posts and comments under that account are "public").
That's precisely how doxxing works. Anything that's available about name, location, employer, nature of employment, city, anything you reveal is used. Log files will be used from blog sites. Packets will be sniffed. Searches will be amalgamated and put into profiles until names are matched.
Never reveal a damn thing. I share nothing of my real life here / anywhere. Not a name, not a city, not the name of any person I work with or who I work for, not ever.
I barely mention the nature of my employment because even that could narrow down in about 3 steps.
[–]Botanical-Concepts15 points16 points17 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No marrying or having a LTR is "intentional misconduct"... LOL.
Keep us posted.
[–]DigitalScetis13 points14 points15 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Here's my take. They're probably trying to gauge your reaction. If it's true that some anonymous tip called you "an active member of the hate movement known as MGTOW," they probably don't have the foggiest idea what it is about, why they should care, or what--if anything--you actually have to do with it.
So they might be trying to act all serious about it to see what you will do (confess, resign, plead your case) so to inform what they will do (shrug it off, hold a hearing, summarily dismiss you, call the police, give you a raise and a bonus, who knows?).
For all they know this could be a prank or a jealous ex who is out for revenge, making shit up. One thing for sure is that people just don't up and fire good employees based on some unsolicited phone call or email. If people would go through this much trouble to dox you, they would go through the trouble of faking the information too.
Besides, if this sort of "tip" was the result of doxing, it is in violation of numerous terms of services, privacy policies and general nettiquete. Nefarious methods are generally not credible sources, especially when they are leveled against such small fry (no offense).
Depending on the method and applicable law, what this "anonymous source" did to discover your identity and your employer could be illegal for all you know (and all they know). And they don't want any part of that.
So stay frosty. Call a lawyer if you must. But all I can say is keep cool.
[–]Cristoff131 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
One thing for sure is that people just don't up and fire good employees based on some unsolicited phone call or email.
From what I've read some HR departments in big companies will overreact like this.
[–]oldredder1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
IT happens all the time. ALWAYS.
Employees who stay aren't good employees. They're the ones that have blackmail info and say "fire me now and I'll destroy your life and here's how" then they stay.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The employees that are the hardest to replace are the safest. That means one or more of: having professional exams passed, doing something nobody else can do, or (the best) doing something nobody else wants to do be that sewerage, working outdoors, offshore or simply speaking to horrible people.
The employees that are the hardest to replace are the safest.
In a rational and logical society, yes this would be true.
We no longer live in such a society; we now live in a society that is fundamentally perverse and irrational/illogical on oh so many different levels.
Companies fire (and/or "lay off" or "let go") critically important employees on a regular basis; and for the most ridiculous and arbitrary reasons.
Does it make sense? No, it doesn't... at least not to a RATIONAL mind -- but again, most companies, even engineering and other companies that you would think would still need to operate on a logical and rational basis -- are nevertheless heavily "infected" with HR departments and other "management philosophies" that are essentially emotional and paranoid about anything and everything that is deemed "politically incorrect".
[–]NoobGHOW0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This!!!
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i cant believe that it is their side that is doing that. i thought for sure wed have all the computer nerds.
but then again running to mommy because billy said something mean is a woman tactic. men suck it up. women cry like bitches. i just dont understand why women are never, never, never called out on their behaviour. how glorious it would be to say whatever you want and never have anything but some angry internet comments to deal with. imagine if we wrote books like dworkin. wed be flogged in the streets
and if I was an employer, and one of these internet sjws phoned, i would hang up. i think eventually people will just get tired of them getting outraged by every candy wrapper and tv commercial and just start ignoring them.
[–]jebthecybersoldier10 points11 points12 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Women cry like bitches" because they are bitches.
[–]Teflon08199 points10 points11 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The benefits of being self-employed...
And/or semi-retired with everything paid off, minimal annual expenses, a bit of passive income... and just doing occasional specialty "contract" work (companies get paranoid about their direct employees' being "politically correct" -- they generally care less, and are oblivious to their contract workers); plus said work is for people who value (and often desperately need) my rather specific expertise and capabilities (most of which is done remotely anyway).
I could probably show up for the initial project meeting/contract sign wearing a tan shirt and sporting a "Hitler" mustache and -- so long as there wasn't also a red band with a black on white swastika insignia around my left arm -- they probably wouldn't care (or indeed they might "care" but still hire me anyway -- and if they objected or made too much of a fuss, I'd either reject the project myself {done that several times already} or else boost the price {done more than once as well, what I call my "R-P.I.T.A.* client surcharge" which is anywhere from 15% to a double-rate charge}).
* R-P.I.T.A. being an acronym for (of course) "Royal Pain In The Arse".
[–]KingreX327 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
God fucking dammit man.
Thats so shit. Im sorry to hear that. What you do in our free time shouldn't effect your work especially if you are a good employee. Its not right man.
[–]murph554 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is your employer that closed minded, that you'd be fired without some inquiry..or would your employer be a feminist symp?
[–]Datastream2 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
HR is. And HR is run by women.
[–]NaughtyFred1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mobile broadband dongle+anonymous purchase=problem eliminated
All you ever have to do is ensure you never share your real info online ever. Period.
It's not that hard. I've known since 1986 it would be trouble and I've been right. I've shared nothing.
[–]victor_knight1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too many manginas in power. We need more MGTOW bosses. It's hardly "misconduct" to be free to speak your mind (and the truth).
[–]savedarticles0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't see how they could fire you. That would likely be illegal in the US. I'd definitely see a lawyer if I was fired from a career type job. What you do with your time is your business. I'd just say that you don't know anything about it and just shrug it off. Just say they must have you confused with someone else.
Here's how you do it. LINK
illegal + us = normal
The key is to have the leverage to threaten them to lose all their money and reputation for doing it.
[+]Morranaii-18 points-17 points-16 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
meh
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