My ex is getting married

TsunYanKudere · 2018-04-05T06:05:24+00:00

I know this might now help much but think of it like this:

Not yo money, not yo problem.

CapnPoot · 2018-04-05T06:17:46+00:00

Ha after enough time passes, you’ll be happier than you can imagine. Two of my exes are getting married within the same month, and I thank the sweet baby jesus that I dodged those nightmares

givenchyboy · 2018-04-05T06:11:40+00:00

This is when you rent a dope Lambo, show up at the wedding with 6 escorts, run as fast as you can, and then suplex her

Captain_REEcard · 2018-04-05T06:24:44+00:00

I dated a girl for 4 years. We lived together for 2 years. She wanted a baby, I wasn't ready, so I left her.

She married the guy she'd dated before me not 3 months later. They had a kid a few years later, she was a stay at home mom til the kid was old enough to go to school, then she divorced her husband and now goes to church in search of a "good man." Meanwhile, the kid might as well be her boyfriend, because she's constantly posting pictures of them together on Facebook and calls him "her sidekick" and all this other bullshit.

I don't really keep track of her, but this is what my mom tells me, who's still friends with her on Facebook. I get a good laugh out of it though, knowing the red pill things I know.

justareflektorr · 2018-04-05T07:42:31+00:00

Marriage in 2018 is a joke.

Patri_Arky · 2018-04-05T06:42:14+00:00

Send a note to the groom:

"You poor bastard. Once it wears off, email me your address and I'll send over a good bottle of scotch."

:)

Global_MGTOW · 2018-04-05T07:48:05+00:00

You got lucky, she's going to ruin this poor man's life like she would have done to you. Right now, you may feel like you missed out but give it 5 years, you'll realized you dodged a missile.

lacaedyl · 2018-04-05T07:33:47+00:00

dated a few girls who when it ended, felt it would devastate me the day i actually saw them get married. then i saw it. never gave a single fuck. first they were all hitting the wall when it happened and the prize didn't look that good, even in full bridal makeup. they also always married a cuck and I could tell their egos' hadn't met up with reality yet. I find you give most girls a few years and they just age themselves out of your memory. they really hit the wall so fucking fast. only girls that have gotten me jealous was when i dated a 19 year old that ended up serious with another guy and fucking him by age 20. she was still prime at that time and yeah, i felt some jealousy. but yeah, never felt that for any girl past 22-23. they are ticking time bombs of spoiled milk by then.

Rognin · 2018-04-05T11:41:41+00:00

Karma pays you back, ALWAYS.

My first LTR of 5 years that I thought was NAWALT, that I bought a house for, almost married and impregnated dumped me. I worked in remote construction camps months at a time back then to pay for everything. She broke up with me and I shortly after found out she was going on a trip to Honduras with her lover. 14 months later I found out by the neighbor that the lover (a man 10 years my senior with loads of money) had been bedding her in my house for months. Monkey branched the fuck out of my life.

Today, she has hit the wall from the Armstrong line free fall, is single and has severe BPD (diagnosed it shortly after dumping me). To top it off she has a severe addiction to coke and an alcoholic. I fuckin' Neo'd that shit like in the movies.

I've recently been dumped again, this time on a short term fling. To be honest I dumped her and took her back and it lasted a week when we both realized it didn't work out too great. She's been with 7 dudes since Oct. 2017 that I know of. Now I'm just thinking I am impervious and might never actually suffer a wound (I lie, I'm hurt every time). Funny thing is she is trying to get back with me cause the CC is giving her regrets and she's seeing the ground from her free fall approaching quickly and grasping for anything that'll slow the fall. I plan on extending my hand and them pulling it back as I see her splat on the infamous wall.

I'm 37, and just starting to realize my potential. Be the prize, be the man, don't get hung up with women. You are more than anything they could ever offer. And Karma ALWAYS pays you back in double.

westnblue · 2018-04-05T06:27:50+00:00

Congratulations! ..... to you. Give it 24months and start banging her and have some cuck babies

hodltaco · 2018-04-05T07:13:30+00:00

Your life now is so much better. In another 18-36 mos. your life will be sooooooo much better than even now when you see what condition she’s in.

CONGRATULATIONS!!

bermalux · 2018-04-05T09:10:32+00:00

I had another similar thing. 9 years ago i met her, was fully in love (it was only for 1 week) but I wanted relationshit and marriage and all this shit in the next years together with her... She refused. Few months ago she messaged me, she is still thinking of our time 9 years ago and if we wanna meet now, she misses me, i was special blabla... But: she is married now for 6 years and got 2 kids, house etc. Glad I'm not that poor guy who must handle bs like her in my life. It takes time... But the time is worth it - believe me.

rtmlex · 2018-04-05T06:29:20+00:00

Feel happy. It could have been you. Remember how it ended and multiply it by 1000

lacaedyl · 2018-04-05T06:34:43+00:00

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monty93 · 2018-04-05T06:46:48+00:00

I know, I'm sorry for him too.

DavidShekelburg · 2018-04-05T07:16:04+00:00

You should feel happy that your alimony payments will end when he says "I do."

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2018-04-05T07:29:36+00:00

Didn't feel anything at all when my ex got married. I knew roughly when it happened and didn't get an invite but honestly how uncomfortable would it have been for everyone if I had been there?

As it happened, within about 5 years she got divorced again anyway...

somuchluv2give · 2018-04-05T07:59:33+00:00

Are u kidding me? If you married her it would be a fucking disaster. You had her in her peak prime. It’s all downhill from there. In marriage the sex stops. She gets fat and old. She nags. U get so sick of her you just wana kill yourself everytime she opens her mouth. Never ever get married.

electric_sheep451 · 2018-04-05T06:23:20+00:00

I feel for you mate, only thing to do is just wade through the shit until you come out the other side feeling better.

Do something you really like this weekend, I'd be going to watch the touring car racing if I hadn't left it too late to buy a ticket!

TheHandsomeMF · 2018-04-05T10:50:36+00:00

Did you nut on her mouth? You did? Good... Tell her husband.

And you will just laugh it off, and find some pussy to forget your connection with her.

boisdevie · 2018-04-05T11:10:32+00:00

My ex-wife remarried and I don't fucking care. I should feel sorry for the guy but he's a complete fool so I don't. Why are you bothered?

Sol_Install · 2018-04-05T11:39:28+00:00

You need to focus on the bad. That's how get over your ex. You also need to read The Manipulated Man and The Predatory Female. You will understand what happened to you. You need that pain and rage. It is how you cleanse yourself of her. You were played for a fool. She used you because you're a decent guy.

thenibelung · 2018-04-05T13:52:03+00:00

She’s gonna cheat and take the money from someone else, not you.

WhackingPsychopomp · 2018-04-05T14:09:37+00:00

Mine's about to remarry the second time after we divorced. This will be her fourth attempt.

prettyflyforabrowngy · 2018-04-05T16:30:10+00:00

feelings are okay my man

2018-04-05T18:00:29+00:00

The same happened to me. The last woman I embraced, felt slightly intimate with. She got married, had a child. It was a bit weird, but then I remembered how snarky she could be, how easily she could ruin every sweet moment.

lacaedyl · 2018-07-04T16:18:30+00:00

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JohnOrange2112 · 2018-04-05T13:11:09+00:00

You can breathe easier now. She is now somebody else's problem.

Afab67 · 2018-04-05T14:24:28+00:00

Light a candle for the guy. He's the one getting screwed in a few years.

1v1crown · 2018-04-05T14:26:59+00:00

Dude... just think of the fact that husband is marrying your used goods. It's hilarious tbh. I love seeing my exs get married

PinHunter65 · 2018-04-05T19:31:27+00:00

Just think of how badly shes gonna screw over the new husband. You dodged a bullet.

Nezborn02 · 2018-04-05T19:49:19+00:00

you should feel bad for the cuck she married

StoneTempleFlyboy · 2018-04-06T00:26:25+00:00

15 years from now you will accidentally see a picture of her and say "thank God I didn't marry her" even if she looks good still. At the very least you won't even have a pang of longing.

skippydammit · 2018-04-06T00:53:59+00:00

NOT your "circus" and definitely not your "monkey$$$$$". Pick your favourite beverage and toast her and her new "beta"...poor ba$tard...-:) Keep on keeping on!

Phanekim · 2018-04-07T02:06:09+00:00

you won't feel anything after she hits the wall and its 10 years from this post. you'll be like most of us and thankful you dodged a bullet.

young_Mghow · 2018-07-16T17:59:09+00:00

Hello OP, I hope you are doing well. I can relate to your story. My Nawalt girlfriend,who I could have taken a bullet for,left me because her family didn't approve of me as a suitable match. I have been lied to and cheated on so many times before but trust me this time it is different. This girl turned from blue to red (just like yours). we stayed together for 2 years and its been 3 months that she's left and I feel like a knife in my back. I suffer from PTSD and I get frighting dreams from time to time. Today I saw in my dream a common friend of us, who told me she got married last week and showed me her wedding pics. when I woke up I felt so traumatized that I decided to beg her to come back and give me a chance but eventually after several hours my logical brain convinced me not to contact her as I have had already begged her plenty of times and its not gonna change anything. I wanna Know how thing turned out for you? as I'm still in grieving process and suffering from Oneitis. I know she is not good for me and she left me for a Chad. I remember all the sh**testing and pain I went through because of her but a part me of still loves her and wants her back. Most of people said that Time is the only healer here, but when I read your story of being hurt even after 4 years I got more depressed . I am young and it sucks to see my dreams shattered this easy

Title	My ex is getting married
Author	lacaedyl
Upvotes	36
Comments	83
Date	April 5, 2018 6:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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