This is fucking heartbreaking

fuckyouredditcunts77 · 2017-11-01T02:04:01+00:00

Most women would blow their fucking brains out if they had to endure the suffering that they inflict on single fathers.

good_man_gone · 2017-11-01T00:53:22+00:00

Be strong brother. Your heart is in the right place. Your pain has made you a better person.

lonewolf-chicago · 2017-11-01T01:15:46+00:00

I know exactly how you feel cuz the same shit is over here. Except my daughter wants to spend Halloween with the upstairs neighbor at the ex-wife's condo instead of going trick or treating with her dad...

Why because the neighbors who my ex-wife never liked when we were married suddenly they're the coolest people on the Block after we got divorced they decided they could convert somebody into a socialist social justice Warrior Pig just like they are and now my daughter loves going up there to play

So I bought a bunch of food for my daughter and I to cook together she's 12 years old and I realize when I got home with all the groceries that since she wants to fucking play with the neighbors I'm going to let her play with the neighbors.

Today is my day to have dinner with her, too.

I'm sure my ideas are the same as yours except I'm actually going to follow through with it as soon as my daughter graduates high school.

balancedben · 2017-11-01T00:51:05+00:00

My mom did the same thing. Halloween is my dad's birthday, too. So she basically blocked a chance for him to enjoy a simple thing with his two sons on the day of his birth. Consider that shit.

Up_to_here_with_BS02 · 2017-11-01T03:01:31+00:00

A scorpion doesn't feel for her victims.
Don't ever expect a female to feel for a man.
My sympathies go out to you.

jejagua · 2017-11-01T01:15:33+00:00

I struggled to bury resentment about all the missed times with my son. He is raised now and looking back, I think the most important thing that got me through was making every moment with him as special as possible.

tdh792 · 2017-11-01T03:49:09+00:00

Buddy, I feel for you. I'm going through the same thing. The worst part for me is when I get to see the kids and they're distant. Like they are someone else's kids. They don't want to hug anymore. They look at me like I'm a stranger.

cam-seller · 2017-11-01T02:03:04+00:00

Never have children

ManIsWalking · 2017-11-01T02:10:15+00:00

Dude, it'll be belated, but spend a little time turning the living room into a mini haunted house. Tomorrow go buy a fuck ton of cheap candy and some discounted costumes. Then when you get your kids next you can have a little mini Halloween. If their mom didn't let them go out, I'm telling you, your kids will never forget this.

Also, Halloween is a Christian holiday...

chester444 · 2017-11-01T03:54:10+00:00

You are not alone. There are many guys here going thru the same or very similar circumstances. I have a young daughter who is with her mother tonight as well, and she feigns the ultra pious Christian morality bullshit also. It is heartbreaking and disgusting.

Stay strong for your kids. They need you for them as their dad. Fuck what society tells you. After the shit show with their mother subsides, and who knows how long that will take, they will need you to step up and be their father. It sucks, and we all know the ugliness of the situation all too well. Hold your head high and stay strong, this will eventually pass, and your kids will see thru their mother’s bullshit. It might take awhile. But you owe it to your kids to stay in it for the long haul. Be well.

Reprogramming_Life · 2017-11-01T03:20:59+00:00

At least you get to see your daughter some.

Tyler789228 · 2017-11-01T07:23:34+00:00

but mom has decided she's now an ultra conservative christian

Chameleon strikes again. They can change from christian to wiccan or leftist to tradcon in a heartbeat if that is their interest... AWALT

pupperonidude · 2017-11-01T02:40:06+00:00

Ha, I wouldn't let any mother fucker stand in the way of spending holidays with my kids. Split custody, I'd bankrupt myself before letting some bitch have control over my kids.

Strella10m · 2017-11-01T05:27:41+00:00

Well according to some users here, everyone has to have a long term relationship with a woman. They have to get married, have kids and get divorced rape before they can become a MGTOW member.

As a divorced raped guy, I applaud the young men that realize women aren’t worth shit.

Lifeboatinthedark · 2017-11-01T06:01:10+00:00

Could be worse. Although that depends on perspective. I havent seen my kid in 3-4 years and prob never will again. It would have cost me Hundreds of thousands to get every other weekend.

I was basically sperm jacked.

And I get to pay child support and Im demonized as well as a "deadbeat."

Fun stuff.

NotMyWomen · 2017-11-01T07:47:29+00:00

Every white male suicide prevented is another brick in our fortress.

Nobody ever forget that.

Our revenge will be our laughter.

Keyhre · 2017-11-01T03:25:39+00:00

I could feel the pain man, that is heart wrenching. I feel like no one sees what is going on. No matter how much I go over the stats, facts and what I see myself.... It comes back to this gynocentrism.

I wish we could stop these horrible situations from happening, but no, we all just get called misogynists. Yet we're the only ones who might be able to fix things, since we see further than anyone else does simply living their life. Even politicians can only go with the female and white knight majority at the moment.

SorryAssCuck · 2017-11-01T04:19:41+00:00

I’m sorry, man. What a load of fucking bullshit. As I took my four year old little boy trick or treating in his costume, it was very obvious that he was having a fantastic time and he was very happy in those moments. What God would be opposed to that? Only idiots and stupid bitches could twist that into being something evil or unholy.

jamocadyn · 2017-11-01T08:26:14+00:00

i don't like hearing about a father's pain. my dad hasn't seen me for 12 or so. i have no idea what it's like for him (he broke off contact)

consios88 · 2017-11-01T08:32:28+00:00

Lost count of how many girls i've known who proudly rode the CC for 10 year, then remarkably became conservative Christian and started messaging me to let me know they are looking for a good man like me to settle with, and some even saying they was in love with me all those years ago but didn't realise it... was the biggest mistake of theif life rejecting me to ride the CC etc.

Judge her by what she does, not by what she says.

Doc_Sithicus · 2017-11-01T11:03:42+00:00

This is one of the things normies won't understand until it happens to them.

I once told this to a now former friend - You are one bad divorce away from being me.

RedFoxOnFire · 2017-11-01T01:28:14+00:00

What?

People want to celebrate the fall harvest?

Not on my watch! (/s)

LooksAtDogs · 2017-11-01T08:23:34+00:00

Good old male "privilege"

squidracer · 2017-11-01T08:27:11+00:00

Halloween is forbidden

What kinda fucked up religion (more like cult) is she into. Every church in my area does Halloween for the kiddos

Griever114 · 2017-11-01T11:20:16+00:00

Unfortunately, I have seen this situation happen far too many times.

My suggestion (so long as you ha e a child that is compliant)

Buy some candy. It's cheaper post Halloween anyways.
Go to neigh it's you trust. Tell them that you kid missed Halloween and you want to make sure they get it this year. Give them candy to hand to yuour kid and they keep the rest.
Tell you kid to dress up (costumes will be cheap now) and go trick or treating. If the kid worries why you are doing it alone, tell them this is a special Halloween for your family. Just you two.
Enjoy.

This is your house too. Don't let your kids childhood be ruined.

MattFoley79 · 2017-11-02T00:26:21+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I've been in the same boat as you're in right now. All I can say is that it gets easier. Time has a way of easing the pain. Eventually you become numb to it and move onto thinking about other things.

Just be the best dad that you can be in the 4 days a month that you get with them. That's really all you can do. The kids are the ones who really lose out by not having their dad around, but the courts don't give two shits about that.

If I could do it over again, I'd have had a vasectomy at 18. Too much pain and suffering all around -- I had no idea what I was getting into. But, here we are. Gotta make the best of it.

curiouslyengaged · 2017-11-01T04:05:06+00:00

Anything you could do for more placement?

PedanticPeasantry · 2017-11-01T07:27:32+00:00

I always kind of wanted kids, although fell on no kids juuuuuust barely.... As I age I want them a little more, but I think just having a boy would break my heart.

My dad said a few things to me before he died that I had no idea how to grasp when he said them.... I think... He felt the same.

hello4200 · 2017-11-01T08:06:30+00:00

Why is christianity a bad thing, rather be christian than a whore

jamocadyn · 2017-11-01T10:32:18+00:00

Having gone through the divorce grinder myself...I have wondered why there weren't more homicides of divorcing females and their lawyers.

2017-11-01T12:37:36+00:00

Because it's HER child not yours, you do not matter and she can make any choice she wants for HER child, it belongs to HER.
Your child is not a child to HER, it's an object to play and toy with, to manipulate, to use as a weapon or to garner sympathy, money, status or whatever the fuck else.
It is heartbreaking dude, your mission is not let your daughter turn out the same.

ColdStoryBro · 2017-11-01T05:54:57+00:00

I appreciate your advice my friend!

gravelheart · 2017-11-01T07:01:40+00:00

I'm not a dad but I feel ya.

801735 · 2017-11-01T10:50:12+00:00

OG

What is OG?

Do not be me.

You made it this far, so, not bad?

Strella10m · 2017-11-01T11:43:38+00:00

I love my kids very much and consider them my responsibility, and I'm failing at that through no fault of my own.

you aint going to like this but you decided or allowed yourself to have a child with an unstable partner

I dont have kids, but if i decided to it is such a massive commitment i have to be 100% sure without hesitation that the woman i am having kids with is absolutely grade A cast iron stable and decent, failing to secure that is building your future on moving sand.

so it is somewhat your "fault" in the overall scheme of things. unless she tricked or lied to you about birth control etc.

Bestoftherest222 · 2017-11-01T11:44:21+00:00

Got to love the reformed whores turned nuns huh. Your ex was more than willing to break up the family, now she thinks Halloween is evil for your kids sake. Yet this women couldn't or doesn't want to keep a family together, which does way more damage than a once a year PAGAN Holiday can ever do.

GALACTAWIT · 2017-11-01T12:04:40+00:00

Be strong! everything is temporary!

docmongre · 2017-11-01T12:46:05+00:00

Been there in such a bad way. I feel your pain because I have lived it, too. There's nothing I can say to make you feel better. The only thing that really helped me was to walk away and focus my energy on the people around me who were capable of receiving my love. My guess is there are people who care about you. You have a responsibility to them to be strong and move on. Maybe you're interested in helping others...that helped me to get past it.

TVTestPattern · 2017-11-01T12:57:58+00:00

conservative christian? She cheated on you a bunch of times didn't she?

Gmiou · 2017-11-01T13:00:55+00:00

Same here my friend i can see my child every few years!!, not days... Then pain sometimes is unbearable

AllahHatesFags · 2017-11-01T13:18:17+00:00

My parents tried to push this "Halloween is devil worship!" bullshit on me; I was having none of it. I learned early on how much dumber than me they are, they even involved with fucking Amway!

TVTestPattern · 2017-11-01T13:27:11+00:00

I hear you man. I had my kids for Halloween last night. My middle child remembered that my favorite candy bar was Snickers, she literally went through her 3 lb bag of candy and tried to give them all to me. I almost started to tear up. I can't believe she remembered that.

Supersonic_staples · 2017-11-01T13:27:28+00:00

It is heartbreaking. Stay strong though, the only thing you can do is be the best dad you can be.

My ex pulled a similar stunt last night. She has the kids, but Halloween is a co-parenting event. I showed up and started taking the kids trick or treating. She got a message on her phone and disappeared at her first opportunity.

Me, I couldn't care, in fact it made the trick or treating a better experience for myself. The only thing that makes me rage and see red is seeing the kids hurt and not understanding when mommy takes off for a booty call.

imdar3ald3al · 2017-11-01T13:33:17+00:00

It's safe to assume your ex wife is turning your daughter away from you.

All you can do is keep trying to be a good dad. Be in her life, teach her stuff, be straightforward that you fought for custody and say that what the ex wife is saying isn't true.

Do not fall into the trap of ignoring her because of the ex wife. Maybe, just maybe, she'll grow up and realize she's a lieing bitch and you kept trying but that def won't happen if you give up.

cashmoney_x · 2017-11-01T14:03:01+00:00

"but mom has decided she's now an ultra conservative christian, and Halloween is forbidden "

Jesus fucking Christ.

Ironically, Halloween was originally invented as a way to ward off evil spirts (lol) not promote them. As usual a religious nut is also ignorant as fuck while thinking they are being moral/taking a stand.

GreenMile83 · 2017-11-01T14:26:18+00:00

You know what you need to do OP? The next time you get your daughter back, get her a costume, buy a bunch of candy to give your neighbors and take her out yourself. People would help because being against Halloween because it threatens Jesus or whatever, is not normal.

Your daughter might remember missing out Halloween because of her mom, but she'll remember that you gave it back to her.

fcb98292 · 2017-11-01T14:45:38+00:00

MGTOW. Because you understand females.

Saturn1981 · 2017-11-01T14:50:02+00:00

I have an idea:

Go around your neighborhood and tell your neighbors about how awful your wife is, and ask to set up a special Halloween for your daughter. Take her trick-or-treating sometime in mid-november to your neighbors homes.

It’s a small feet, but it will do wonders for your daughter.

TxEagle361 · 2017-11-01T14:55:22+00:00

Typical female flight plan. Be a born-again fundamentalist virgin while single but then rush to be "spiritual, but not religious" when riding the carousel. The degree of faith (and I use that very loosely) being tailored to fit the latest male target/victim. And all the while, kids are caught in the crossfire and are getting whipsawed in the process.

verynormalsimple · 2017-11-01T15:46:28+00:00

Ultra conservatives christians, one can't get much more retarded than that...

swampboxers · 2017-11-01T15:52:57+00:00

I hear you man. The man is almost always shafted. Fear not. Your child will remember how shitty their Mom was. In the end you will win out. My son was wise to not let his mother have anything to do with his wedding planning. The reason of course is she would have taken over the whole thing. She even admitted he was right after some back and forth. It gets better. I have a better relationship with my kids now than just about ever.

Dank_Meems · 2017-11-01T16:22:02+00:00

Kids with mothers like that always seem to figure it out. She will know what a cunt her mom is when she gets older and she will know her father always treated her right and did right by her. Just be a good dad and hope for the best, your ex will learn the hard way and it will be too late for her to salvage any real relationship that isn't focused around money.

balancedben · 2017-11-01T18:15:28+00:00

Your ex wife will likely claim to be a born again virgin as well.

officerkondo · 2017-11-01T18:25:38+00:00

My observation handing out candy last night was that Halloween may as well be called Single Mom Parade Night.

eltonl · 2017-11-01T18:35:21+00:00

you re a hero bro

xXx420VTECxXx · 2017-11-01T21:44:19+00:00

You know i've never in my life heard of a story like this from a woman.

SpongeGar1234 · 2017-12-12T08:15:27+00:00

my dad has the same shitty deal. sucks for both of us but my mom "deserves to be happy" (at the expense of me having a father and my dad having a son but hey)

Titaniumbass · 2017-11-01T15:50:35+00:00

Can absolutely sympathize here bruh, hang in there...my daughter turns 18 next year and I feel I've missed the last 6 Halloweens without her. Realize you are not alone in this situation.

DarthCallidous · 2017-11-01T19:57:30+00:00

Sounds like she only became a Christian to make up for all the years of C.C. riding, but what do I know.

LejfMedStortJ · 2017-11-10T10:30:10+00:00

The issue isn't marriage. It is that MOST of the time beta cucks marry someone that isn't super crazy about them. If you're able to attract a great female in a way that she actually looks up to you and loves you ALOT she probably wont cheat. That is something that "alfa" males know. Of course my wife don't "go out and drink with friends" and all that shit. There is other things that "never married" or "cuck".

TVTestPattern · 2017-11-01T08:07:58+00:00

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drqxx · 2017-11-01T11:29:41+00:00

Man the fuck up and take what is your. You are a coward in your daughters honor.

My ex hated me cause I gave her the divorce papers. We had son she fought with me to get all the time. I fought harder. Now I have him 50/50 She knows I like Halloween so she just let's me have that day(I give her Easter) fuck chocolate rabbits.

If you're not there for your daughter just expect other random men to fill those needs.

This is fucking heartbreaking

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Man the fuck up and take what is your. You are a coward in your daughters honor.

For me it was diplomacys

Aut inveniam viam aut faciam.

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