Boys nights / trips

JDRoedell · 2017-12-12T13:34:10+00:00

Not a strip club fan for reasons already mentioned but agree with the rest. With one caveat... real men are also comfortable in social settings and hobbies by themselves. I have solo hobbies and hobbies that require others.

Having a group of guys to do stuff with keeps the feminine from creeping in too much. Having one to three really good male friends you do hobbies or get drinks with is also important but don’t forget that at the end of the day in our society. men are, and always will be “on their own.” You have to be comfortable operating alone too. Women don’t share this. They (typically) have endless support groups, herds and support.

bogeyd6 · 2017-12-12T00:07:56+00:00

The only time you go to the strip club is with your buddies or with other women. Keep your wits about you. Pregame before you go in. The ATM in the club is hacked. Have some fun with the guys.

Persaeus · 2017-12-12T13:48:14+00:00

excellent advice, my favorite is outdoor activities that have an objective and require planning and teamwork to accomplish.

i find that when I am in wilderness for more than a week (especially more than 10 days); that the first time i get in a car and drive fast it's somewhat of an exhilarating and disorienting experience. same applies to women. it's healthy to remove yourself from the signal for periods of time.

Rian_Stone · 2017-12-12T17:15:40+00:00

Plan, my buddy is retiring in January. Taking a 4 day weekend, and flying somewhere. Preference for someplace where we could die, over a place to get fat eating appies and drinking.

For my retirment, they all flew down to Montreal and Finished off my pussers rum I bought in my first sail back in 04 (party was in '16)

So far, tie between Muscat, Oman and Netherlands/Amsterdam.

screechhater · 2017-12-13T04:29:30+00:00

Dad used to own a strip club by a US Navy Base. I fucking loved it at 19. Famed they are ugly when the lights come on. And the mouths wholly fuck instant ED

Anyhoo, can’t beat a men only trip. Whether it’s tiba ballpark, hockey game, or backpacking someone is gonna get called out on his shit, eventually.

Does a great job of grounding you especially, when a fucking retard cries about his shitty fuckking life and how he wished he had “sowed his wild oats like you screech early on”

“Fuck what’s wrong with now ? dumbass you ain’t dead”. Harpy CUNT fearin motherfucker

I love that shit. I can cry about work and get bitch slapped right back to reality. Drunk punch does you good

Best time we ever had was hunting in Dakota. Mother fucking guided meet me us at 9am in the hotel parking lot and we done by 2 max have someone hired to clean and pack the birds. I would hit the gym, shower and start drinking. Fuck the wife’s calls or the office. It’s my time

Went down to Fremont St a while back and thought I was gonna puke up my shit with those fat retarded body painted cows with book shelf asses. I would have to be real fucked up to tap any of those holes. Ugh

Friend looks like young Ralph Lauren. Always crying about no pussy. Got a pool for him to get a whore. Even got him a littke blue pill so he would be able to get it all out.

OP. Damned right. Time to get unfagged by bros

redpillrobby · 2017-12-11T23:31:17+00:00

Agree 100%.

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2017-12-12T18:10:42+00:00

Strip clubs can be a right of passage for young men. Everyone knows it's transactional and strippers don't like you. You're there to look at hot nude women while shooting the shit with your boys. Also after - all you are throwing dollars at these chicks while they strip for you, I suppose it's just as demeaning as you standing up looking at her pussy. I don't see the harm once a year or so when the group gets together. Especially if you are married and won't cheat, go ahead and have peek and some young tail...

red-sfpplus · 2017-12-11T23:40:21+00:00

Going to have to disagree with the strip club part.

For most men, strip clubs are 100% beta cuck breeding grounds. You go and look at women you won’t fuck, buy them drinks, pay to touch them and go home with blue balls, to a wife or SO who also, likely does not want to fuck you.

After all, what else is the reason to go?

The only time I go to the club is when the wife is with me, or I am taking a client and spending the company per diem. Ever watch your woman get a lap dance? That is worth pay $20 for.

I also am not a big believer in men only nights or trips, anymore than my wife is into GNO or girls trips. We just don’t do that. It works for us.

I prefer to spend my time with male friends during daylight hours, esp the closer to 40 I get.

Big_Daddy_PDX · 2017-12-12T06:13:19+00:00

Disagree. At your age group (mine too) strip clubs are sad. Unless you’re at risk of actually fucking these strippers, they are busy laughing about how you’re old enough to be their Dad. It’s just too transactional of an environment for me anymore.

Triadis3 · 2017-12-12T15:21:15+00:00

I used to organize a motorcycle road trip every year. No women. About 3000 miles, a big loop, no reservations and no solid itinerary, just a bunch of guys out on the road for a few weeks.

Anywhere from 2-7 guys. I somehow always ended up the defacto leader, but I was ok with that.

The deeper into redpill awareness I got, the less time I found I could tolerate being with these guys. Rolling down the road was great, shooting the shit over the misadventures of the day with a few beers after the bikes were parked was fun, but actually going out and gaming with these guys was depressing.

I'd end the trip so our last night away was spent in a hotel stumbling distance to a strip club.

The boys were always amped up, drinking and intently staring at the stages from the darkest corner while keenly trying to appear to do anything but intently stare at the stages.

Strip clubs are full of hot, broken women. Think of them as reality-tv theatre. It's a show.

Get up, chat, be as alpha as you want. It's all a game. They want tips, you want to see hot young pussy. It's a fucking holodeck. They are so inundated with little beta boys that you are going to stand out. I ensure I get a solo room when I stay here because I usually take one back. I'm 47. Oldest guy in the group. Just don't look it. Or act it. Easy picking. Good practise for batting away shittests, these girls are masters at separating betas from their money. They are quintessentially "little princesses". They've realized that they can use boys. So don't be a boy, be daddy....they need daddy.

I shut down the road trips a few years ago, my two closest "buddies" both remarried, are nesting, and both getting impressively fat. (one is not even 40, has to wear a cpap now and is on BP meds)

I just can't.

Last few trips I did solo. Realized how much I actually had been babysitting 5 grown men when there was no one but me to be responsible for. No damage control for when they said/did something unbelievably cringey. One time my bud was hitting on the waitress poorly. He did the "What's the best bar in this shitty town?" schtick.

She sent us to a gay bar. Funny as shit.

Final straw... wife finally told me my fat CPAP bud had been secretly whiteknighting for years, telling her all my "misdeeds", spilling his guts about how aggressive I was at the bar, that I had stayed out while the rest of the crew went home to sleep, etc. etc....

Which my wife thought was funny, as I have no secrets from her (and a don't ask if you don't want to know policy), we have FAR from a traditional relationship...I've taken her to more peeler bars than I've gone to with buddies... which CPAP boy knows!??!

The depths of white on this knight...

I still like doing PG activities with assorted buddies. But I'll never wingman or tolerate bloopers again.

snatch_haggis · 2017-12-14T17:35:04+00:00

Gun range is great for this, and it's all year round - can do outdoor ranges when the weather nice and indoor otherwise.

I had a 4-person group that went shooting every couple weeks, this is a good reminder to get that back up and running.

Barvazon · 2017-12-16T20:05:17+00:00

fix this in your life.

How???

4angrydragons · 2017-12-19T23:36:38+00:00

Me and my buddies go away at least once a year.

Went to Mexico for 5 days, going again soon.

It is 5 days of us being stupid silly boys

Title	Boys nights / trips
Author	simbarlion
Upvotes	32
Comments	26
Date	December 11, 2017 11:22 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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