Quick clarification on nukes and the nuance of

" What is she going to do, leave?" statements.

This is for mostly newbies.

When we use dread, or defend boundaries, then tell ourselves, mentally and in field reports :

"whats she gonna do, leave??"

we are not doing these things out of a need to prove we have power, or worse, as I can see some guys thinking..

" Well here is my chance to be shitty to her, so I am going to storm out of a restaurant like that Flaired Guy on MRP! That'll show Her"

And if she leaves... "oh well, I am not the bad guy, right.. I am just defending this boundary right here, being Alpha!"

Fuck that noise.

Do not do things just to see how far you can push your woman before the leaves. Don't make her do the dirty work. If you want to leave your marriage just fucking do it. No need to set up a scenario where she is the "bad one".

End of rant.