She is getting breast implants.

saint_chalet · 2016-10-08T15:05:12+00:00

You say you're captain, that's great. The captain commands the ship but doesn't say what goes in the soup, how beds are made or any other bit of detail that keeps the ship running. Your woman wants to look better, excellent, enjoy it. Acting like an insecure fag about it will basically confirm that this ship, despite now having a captain, will never get out of port. She'll start looking. You'll then believe she wanted out before the implants when, in fact, the two acts aren't related.

tldr; quit being a fag. actually read the sidebar. be great.

JaneeCathartica · 2016-10-08T05:47:08+00:00

Cheating on her would have obviously exacerbated any lifelong insecurities of hers. She probably ended up burying the bulk of the impact from it and is subconsciously expressing it this way.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-10-08T06:09:01+00:00

We do not mind read Chick's... Look for validation elsewhere

[deleted] · 2016-10-09T02:51:50+00:00

tldr; ex_addict_bro has spoonfed you all the answers

You (and I believe many of those accusing you of irrational insecurity) are showing signs of a Scarcity Mindset or oneitis, Im not totally sure about that.

You are not married so MRP rules dont apply. If you are uncomfortable with something in a relationship, you can peace out at your digression. This woman stayed with you at your lowest? How cute! You must really like women with no standards. If you want to compromise on something your gut is against, go seek advice from the polyX cucks.

This is no different than cheating, because this is a unilateral decision that she is making that affects you and violates the covert contracts of your relationship. If a woman wants to cheat (or do anything) there is nothing you can do to MAKE her stop. You can only do you. (I guess a better analogy would be a woman becoming a landwhale but I think the logic is still sound)

A woman or any other person is entitled to do whatever she wants, moreso if she is doing it on her dime. She is also solely responsible for the consequences.

Relationships are fragile, that is why TRP encourages an Abundance Mentality and implements it with Plating Theory.

If you like the way her tits are and do not want to deal with playing with silicone, you are under no obligation to stay with her, just dont let her push the blame on you for her unilateral decision.

Yes, she was a loyal woman which impeccable credentials as a FO. Do not let a sunk cost fallacy make you ignore your gut about something you know you are uncomfortable with or find unacceptable. You are the prize and you should thank her for the time you had together. It looks like your turn with her is up.

Is this a reasonable thing to do on her part?

Yes, you are clearly not a good enough of a Captain, or maybe just the wrong Captain, to alleviate whatever insecurity she has that is leading her into an elective surgery with lethal risks. I believe she should see a mental health professional before going through with this because she has yet to provide a logical reason to do this (like furthering her professional goals).

She wants to improve her confidence? Bitch please, wtf do you think TRP/MRP does with ~~shy~~ ~~fat slobs~~ losers and a gym membership?

Her hamster has a covert contract (big tits = confidence/CC/Chad) which will probably disappoint her after her ONSs. Whatever issue she has will simply rear its head again and she will blame you for not stopping her from making a decision you knew she came into the relationship with but wasn't man/Captain enough to protect herself from.

Is breaking it off because of this a little extreme?

No, waiting for her to finish her train wreck and ending it would be extreme (though entertaining if youre a psychopath or something).

Persaeus and SteelToeShitKicker are giving you anecdotal numbers that agree with what I've seen published in psychology papers and are an obvious corollary of TRP/Hypergamy. (Been awhile, maybe those SJW cucks changed their minds since I last looked at this field, Nip/Tuck was such an awesome show).

If only someone loved this poor woman enough to sit her down and talk to a trained mental health professional, SMH

edit: I found a BP who loves/understands her more than you, lol. He must be a lovely cuck that enjoys eating other men's creampies from his wife ass.

FireTempered · 2016-10-08T04:40:27+00:00

She has stuck with me through an addiction, other woman, all our ups and downs. It took me a while but I finally went from semi beta to being the captain of the ship

Now she wants fake tits, for herself, and you are too insecure to allow it. This is not your decision, it is hers. I think you are an ass-hole.

Edit: if you delete this post, you will prove it.

The_Litz · 2016-10-08T06:35:12+00:00

Breast are a big deal for woman. Talk to a woman that has had hers removed because of breast cancer.

I, and most men, don't fully get it.

She wants to increase her SMV. Is it to keep up with you or to branchswing?

And of course, who is paying?

SampsonBrass · 2016-10-08T23:59:20+00:00

In this story about boobs you do realize that you are the biggest boob of all? And not the perky, natural mesmerizing kind of boob but rather the moronic and stupid kind.

If you want to break it off with her, do it. If your life choices require endorsement from strangers then you've got bigger problems than bolt ons. Lol

Persaeus · 2016-10-08T10:14:13+00:00

I have only personally known three women that got breast implants. All three were divorced within 24 months. Just an observation.

MrSundance57 · 2016-10-08T05:17:53+00:00

Of course she is doing it for men's attention. Your right. Prepare for her to branch swing, she is.

Scurvemuch · 2016-10-08T12:10:06+00:00

It's really simple. Has she given you evidence that she is a woman that doesn't deserve your time attention and affection ?

If not- don't even think about it. You can have your opinion. You can say " Hey baby I love you and I think you don't need them to he sexy and beautiful. I will be here for you whatever choice you make regarding implants"

And see what happens.

Are you so dependent on her that if she were to branch swing , you couldn't find other women?

BradLightningRooster · 2016-10-08T12:18:05+00:00

I like smaller natural tits. A chick with falsies would definitely lose points with me. If your chick insists on mutilating herself against your wishes/better judgement then drop her ass and find a girl with nice natural tits. You said she's LTR not wife so you're not stuck.

cdogg75 · 2016-10-08T12:37:06+00:00

If fake boobs are a turn off, then at some point it will show in your interactions with her naked body. At this point, you will probably part ways.

Body image is different for everybody, and to her, it possibly is just a confidence thing. If it's a deal breaker, then walk away. If it is not, then, the let it be.

CasperTFG_808 · 2016-10-08T12:52:10+00:00

I thought this thread would give me perspective but it didn't. My Wife has talked about getting implants as well. My response has always been, she should do what makes her happy. Of course I will enjoy them but at the same time

Internally I'm thinking maybe you should lose the 40 lbs of fat first. Externally I'm not saying anything about her looks because I still have 15 lbs of fat to lose myself.

WhiteTrashKiller · 2016-10-08T15:48:59+00:00

Have you accepted she isn't yours, its just your turn? Your plan to improve yourself and enjoy your life should have no bearing if she is there or not.

Want companionship? Get a fucking Dog, A male one! There 10X more loyal!

Here is your task. Take a piece of paper two columns! On the left write down all the awesome things you can do, wanna do, will do! On the Right put down what you have to do, need to do, cannot stand doing....

Got it so far? Now put her name next to each task or activity that you see her doing with you and if it becomes better or worse. I am sure you will come up with what everyone else comes up with.

If she stays great, new titties. If she swings great too! no marriage = no divorce = less air your asshole is sucking........

ex_addict_bro · 2016-10-08T19:39:27+00:00

Dude, what the fuck is going on with you?

How long is that "L" in this LTR of yours?

Is that woman you write about this whore who tried to make you relapse?

Saw your recent posts, how can you stay clean and drug free while drinking alcohol?

I understand you want to be another red pill star and the amounts of up votes you get makes me jealous, but what the fuck... are we ex-addict friends or not? Are we staying fucking sober or one of us has some kind of sobriety fuckarounditis? Fuck, I saw stoney's back on his twitter, I know me and him are gym bros. I saw TFA's twitter, I know we're beard bros. I read Illimitable shit on twitter too, I know we're cray machiavelli bros. Who the fuck are you man? I thought we're sobriety bros. What the fuck are you doing with your precious god's gift of life?

By the way, if a girl stuck with you through addiction it means she's codependent. Or crazy. Those bitches aren't LTR material. DEM BETCHES BE CRAY MAN. Do you copy?

And, if you are really asking about her tits: you already said it. You hate fake tits. She is getting them, you're done with her. What the fuck is wrong with you, dear drinking redpill star? ONEITIS MUCH?! T-LEVELS NOT SO?! Chicken? Cuck-cuck-cuck, chicken, McFly?

mswezey · 2016-10-08T20:45:02+00:00

Never been through a slut phase? Breast implants are on the list?

Prepare for slut phase.

You already showed her you don't want them. You may be an ass man, but she wants attention from all the boob men/women of the world.

Depending how you went about telling her why you don't want her to have them. You may already have lost her for good. If she senses insecurities.... SOL ... you're back to beta status.

anotherswingingdick · 2016-10-08T09:49:51+00:00

if your best estimate is that she's about to embark on a career of attention-whoring.... then accept the reality of what you see.

She is NOT doing this to strengthen her relationship with YOU.

Not even any point in getting grey hairs & a hoarse voice by making a soap opera about it with her, is theere?

Just slowly downgrade her to fuckbuddy. Start approaching other women & getting their numbers. It's only the EXACT equivalent of her getting a boob job, ya know?

drty_pr · 2016-10-08T13:50:07+00:00

Sit her down and straight up say "i don't like fake tits". Do this with a laptop and porn site open. Search the tag 'saggy'. Then say "lots of other people don't too". Then walk away.

After that you have to not be a pussy and accept it.

87_frys · 2016-10-08T04:38:26+00:00

Wtf, I think you're in the wrong thread. I never comment in here, but this is nonsense. Are you a trolling feminist, seriously?

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redmountainpill · 2016-10-08T04:28:42+00:00

I thought this was a forum for straight men, but I suppose we can be all-inclusive this time

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