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Experience with FB Are we Dating the Same Guy groups having real world impact?

May 17, 2023

These groups are very interesting to me for many reasons. Several women I've heard are on it are notorious for dating multiple men themselves. The nature of the groups seems to violate the TOS on all dating apps regarding sharing the information from the app.

A girl I was seeing earlier this year who already had insecurity issues and was accusing me of being a womanizer found her way to one of these groups. She said I'd been posted there with over 100 comments (!!!!) then proceeded to block me.

I figured she was just lying and looking for any excuse to end it and had found some other guy or something.

Then another woman after that that I hooked up with ghosted me and later said "she knew that all I wanted was sex," and that was why she dipped. Of course I'd said I was open to a relationship. But I said hey, a bad beat.

Then a woman I messaged on a dating app blocked me after saying 'no thanks, your pic is posted with red flags in several groups.' WTF.

Then after that, I met this really cool chick and we seemed to really hit it off. When I saw her the second time she mentioned that "yeah I didn't even look you up or anything before meeting I was really interested in seeing you." Slept together the 2nd date, planned to see her again literally 2 days later. The next day she says she's excited to see me again. Then the day of the date comes and she sends me the classic form text of "you're great, I'm not going to pursue this, yadda yadda good luck.'

So I'm wondering if the reason she suddenly ended things was because of these groups as well. As in she decided to look me up. If she just met another guy that day or the sex was bad, hey that's variance. But I'm starting to think these groups are having real world effects.

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Title Experience with FB Are we Dating the Same Guy groups having real world impact?
Author Ohyarlysmiles
Upvotes 27
Comments 6
Date May 17, 2023 2:05 PM UTC (6 months ago)
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[–]BonsaiSoul 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

From what I hear, they're full of illegal revenge porn, identity theft, stalking and calls for harassment. That definitely has real world effects when it happens to women so to imagine it doesn't affect men would be absurd. Unfortunately expecting anybody to protect boys and men from that kind of behavior is similarly distant from reality. You'll just have to accept that a horrible person who hates your gender voluntarily saw themselves out of your life as a consolation prize.

[–]wes_bestern 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Places like that are ripe for severely deranged and desperate women to prey on men.

[–]Yesyesnaaooo 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. I had a look on them once.

There is zero accountability.

If you decide not to pursue a relationship with a women for any woman, she can freely go on there and trash your name without any consequences.

Worse than that - the women you might reject because you sense she is unstable is even more likely to react badly.

And the given there are several million women in somewhere for New York it’s statistically probable that some women will pop up and confirm you’re a ‘wrong in’ simply to troll - even if they’ve never met you.

It’s MeToo on steroids - you don’t even have to have done anything and you’ll can get completely eviscerated simply because of bad luck.

Imagine there was a FB group of men posting ‘Am I dating a slut’ … the outrage!

It would be headline news, around the world!

[–]Crunch-Potato [score hidden]  (0 children) | Copy Link

Makes sense that it would have some real world effect.

But then you also need to consider that there is a special type of person who frequents those pages, the type that is only temporarily holding the crazy at bay.

[–]Savagemaw [score hidden]  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like they are doing a little self quarantine. Its a great time to be a dude, in perspective.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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