My ex finally lost the war, she De Novo'd every ruling to date we went to court twice as much because she couldn't accept any gain for me. She used blackmail, she trashed my character, my career and most importantly my relationship with my daughter. She was a planned child, I was denied her birth and wasn't able to see her at all for her first six weeks. There is a lot more to the dysfunction, ask and I will tell. We had our final trial court in January and just today received the verdict. The gravy train ride has ended for her. Now I have more custody and placement than the mother.