I am active in the menslib community in the SF bay area. MKP, and a few other groups are important passions of mine. Menslib doesn’t want to hear from men who disagree with their dogma. I pointed out the wage gap study of nurses. Male nurses make several percent more on average. They do it by specializing, working overtime, accepting undesirable shifts, and taking positions with additional responsibility. It is not oppression, unfairness, patriarchy, and sexism. They don’t want to hear it.