Breaking Point

chupasway · 2023-07-04T15:58:11+00:00

With any sort of domestic fight, just leave physically. Walk out the door and come back way later.

DoctorStorm · 2023-07-04T20:26:50+00:00

I accept the fact that I'm angry and hostile and vulnerable and breaking down and about to go off like an atomic fucking bomb, then I distance myself and do something destructive.

I've got this concrete slab and wall of cinderblocks out near one of the ponds in my forest, and I'll blow shit up out there, or take things that have been slowly pissing me off and destroy them with a sledgehammer and/or shotgun (Office Space style, obviously)...

And the thing that usually calms me down? I don't clean that shit up.

That's right, Lexmark Inject, suffer in pieces and let that napalm slowly burn through your useless soul.

I'll step on the back porch after pouring myself a drink, and smile at the small bit of smoke rising through the canopy nearby, knowing full well I did that, and only I will ever know about it.

Well, and, uh, you guys too now. I guess.

moral of the story if you see a small plume of smoke rising through the treetops, and hear the maniacal laughing of an old man in the distance, it's time to stop selling those cookies door to door, girls, best you get on back home now.

KelVarnsenIII · 2023-07-04T20:33:46+00:00

Go hiking and turn off the interwebs. When my son is 18 I'm done with the web. Already done with women and focusing on myself and my needs. Whatever us going on, exercise and lots of it. Wear your body out so you can sleep and find peace.

GltyUntlPrvnInncnt · 2023-07-04T15:34:29+00:00

If you're at that point, you should seek professional help.

Pretend-Thing2816 · 2023-07-04T16:11:39+00:00

You need to learn to keep your emotions in check, maybe medication or counseling will help!

TophatStupify · 2023-07-09T15:56:57+00:00

I want to thank everyone that reached out. I feel like I've put this off long enough. I've decided that it's time to seek professional help.

goinsouth85 · 2023-07-04T17:20:42+00:00

Clonazapam

KalzK · 2023-07-04T21:03:16+00:00

Grab a large garbage bag and start throwing out everything that makes me uncomfortable

2wicky · 2023-07-05T01:10:32+00:00

In the moment, you indulge it, then let it go.
That said, if you are that on edge, you need a break and get as much distance between what ever is the core source of your frustration.
You are probably going to have to make some really hard decisions about your life, but to do that, you'll need to clear your head first. It's likely you've lost all perspective.

You should also seriously consider getting professional help. Again, it's about regaining your perspective.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2023-07-05T03:01:23+00:00

I think if she makes you angry enough that you find yourself forming a fist, then you leave and don't come back. It's over.

MrMacDoctor · 2023-07-05T13:45:13+00:00

Go jerk off.

UnconventionalXY · 2023-07-05T15:16:23+00:00

Stop beating your head against that brick wall, expecting a different outcome and go find a different challenge in your life that is actually rewarding and not destructive.

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Title	Breaking Point
Author	TophatStupify
Upvotes	34
Comments	17
Date	July 4, 2023 3:31 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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