Can we please stop doing hate speech (when it's inappropriate) against feminism and blame all the problems on feminism or women? It's the same thing that those "feminists" do blaming everything on men & downplaying their problems. We should fight for our rights without stupid toxicity, it hurts rep.

Ill_Situation_6564 · 2025-10-15T15:59:15+00:00

Feminism is an ideology of female supremacy disguised as a pursuit of equality.
It deserves to be criticized.

If you think giving way to those people is a way to solve Men's issues, you're gravely mistaken.
They have, and will continue to brand us as whatever they perceive as bad and you shouldn't care.

Inevitable-Tennis-49 · 2025-10-15T16:04:58+00:00

Feminism doesn't care about men. We complain about problems created by feminism because they were created by feminism. Feminism is a hate movement against men

Last-Wave-9844 · 2025-10-15T16:11:40+00:00

The next time someone asks why men don’t like feminism, remind them of what feminists have been saying and doing since before we were born. Copy, paste, and share any or all of this.

Most of feminism revolves around promoting female supremacy, double standards that favor women, and tearing down men and programs that help men. They’ve stolen money from men’s health programs like Movember, shut down DV shelters for men, relentlessly attacked men’s rights organizations, and promoted female-only assistance programs even in areas where women are way ahead. When you call them out on their misandry, they deny it, downplay it, attack you, or change the subject.

Feminists have told the world over and over how they really think about men and women:

“I’m actually not at all concerned about innocent men losing their jobs over false sexual assault/harassment allegations,” "If some innocent men’s reputations have to take a hit in the process of undoing the patriarchy, that is a price I am absolutely willing to pay." – Emily Lindin

"The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race." - Sally Miller Gearhart

"To call a man an animal is to flatter him; he’s a machine, a walking dildo." - Valerie Solanas

“We are, as a sex, infinitely superior to men. “ – Elizabeth Cady Stanton

“We should stop putting women in jail, for anything. “ - Patricia O'Brien

“Men are rapists, batterers, plunderers, killers.” – Andrea Dworkin

“It is masculinity itself that has become the problem… The problem is not toxic masculinity; it’s that masculinity is toxic… simply not compatible with liberty and justice for all" – Lisa Wade

"Do we need men? Men are useless!" - Hosts of The View, the #1 daytime talk show

“Time is short. Change is needed. And women are smarter than men. And the men can’t complain because they are outnumbered today.” - Michelle Obama

“Despite all the challenges we face, I remained convinced that, yes, the future is female.” And “Women have always been the primary victims of war.” - Hillary Clinton

"Kill all men... the coronavirus isn't killing men fast enough." - Clementine Ford

“The more famous and powerful I get the more power I have to hurt men." ~ Sharon Stone

"I feel that 'man-hating' is an honourable and viable political act.” ~ Robin Morgan

"All men are rapists and that's all they are" ~ Marilyn French

"ALL men keep ALL women in a state of fear" ~ Susan Brownmiller

“So men… Don’t run for office. Don’t be in charge of anything. Step away from the power… We have every right to hate you. You have done us wrong. #BecausePatriarchy.” - Suzanna Danuta Walters

And from many unnamed feminists, we’ve heard these slogans and terms to turn public opinion against men, trivialize the problems that men face, get extra female privilege, avoid accountability, and deflect attention from the harms that feminism causes to men (and the rest of society):

“Misandry doesn’t exist.”

“Misogyny kills; misandry annoys.”

“Not all men, but always a man.”

“Men did it to themselves.”

“Believe all women.”

“Kill all men.”

“Toxic masculinity”, “male violence”, “male rage”, “the patriarchy”, “male entitlement”, “mansplaining”, “male privilege”, “the manosphere”, “manteruption’, “man keeping”, “male fragility”, “man spreading”

Feminism was never aimed to promote Egalitarianism in the society rather made Men as sole ScapeGoats for the Problems existing. Also Believing Women in nature are innocent , empathetic by default and no problems can't be caused by them in the society so they expect that no one can question their Hypocrisy and Double standards as they often question Men that's the problem!!! They never accept that Humans together in Nature Can Be bad

FeeRevolutionary1187 · 2025-10-15T16:06:26+00:00

you are crazy if you think modern feminism cares about men lmaooo what world are you in

AdIllustrious6191 · 2025-10-15T17:01:41+00:00

What are men supposed to think when they hear "The Future is Female"? So, men and boys have no future? That is toxic.

86baseTC · 2025-10-15T16:15:15+00:00

StripedFalafel · 2025-10-15T19:03:17+00:00

You say:

Remember that there are good, real, feminists that actually care for men's problems and strive for a complete, two-sided, gender equality...

That's a huge claim. Do you have a huge amount of evidence?

Dangerous-Deal5355 · 2025-10-15T16:15:23+00:00

Nice try feminist.

StandardHelp9493 · 2025-10-15T17:50:22+00:00

"Remember that there are good, real, feminists that actually care for men's problems and strive for a complete, two-sided, gender equality, and it doesn't matter if it's 95, 50 or even 20 percent. "

Horseshit.

As to one point, I will agree. Working to address Men's issues, it would useful to address those issues in a standalone manner, as though feminists and their...apologists do not exist. Simply make the appeal based on the facts of the issue and/or case, and not invite feminists to attack us by mentioning them at all - not that they are out there with a chip on their shoulder dying for something to attack or anything, or that they would attack us anyway.

To the degree that we bring feminists into the issue, it allows them to frame any argument that we have as "anti feminist" - not that they would ever be that intellectually dishonest or anything - and throw up the tired old argument of the dictionary definition of feminism as advocating equality between the genders. They can then paint us as "anti equality" because we are obviously anti feminist.

As for anyone peddling a line about "good, real, feminists that actually care for men's problems and strive for a complete, two-sided, gender equality," I will only note that in addition to the superlative qualities you attribute to them they are also silent and invisible.

Pretend-Storm4566 · 2025-10-16T02:40:31+00:00

This is what they call a "concern troll", right?

Falconoflight777 · 2025-10-15T18:00:46+00:00

Hurts what rep? They hostile by just tha fact of fighting equal rights. To are just dumbass who try to shut the voices of men who get enough of gynocentric hypocrisy. Feminists produce fucking shit tons of nazi shit every day and everyone kiss them in their cunts, so no toxicity can change nothing, you just blame the victim.

Witoldski · 2025-10-16T04:50:42+00:00

Valid criticism of women and feminism is not hate speech. Are you sure it's hate speech or just speech you hate (because it makes you uncomfortable). People whose arguments you have a problem with, why don't you come up with valid counter arguments against their arguments instead of labelling it hate speech?

Feminists complain about living in patriarchal tyranny. That is false and that narrative is simply presented so they can get more and more privileges for women. Whereas many men's issues and complaints about women today are actually correct. Don't compare these two groups. One is pretending to be a victim and bullying anyone who doesn't agree. The other group are really victims.

Sytraxo · 2025-10-15T16:47:57+00:00

To extent you're right. But at the same time, feminist organizations constantly lobby for laws that discriminate against men and boys.

Criticism isn't just fair, it's necessary.

SidewaysGiraffe · 2025-10-15T18:01:32+00:00

Decrying people openly threatening to kill you isn't hate speech. They don't criticize us as activists; they criticize us as men. A fair few of us unfortunately DO criticize women as women; fair enough if you want to gripe on those grounds (I flag it whenever I see it, but it doesn't always get taken down), but Feminism is an ideology, not a gender; it's a perfectly acceptable target.

There are probably people within the ranks of the KKK who don't actually hate black people and are just concerned about the perceived erasure of "white culture", whatever that is. Regardless of the nobility of their intentions, or even their actions, they're working in the name of (and thus tacitly acting in support of an organization with multiple atrocities to its name and a hell of a lot of innocent blood on its hands.

Feminism is no different.

VOLRESH · 2025-10-15T16:56:40+00:00

This has to be a woman in disguise. I refuse to believe a man can be this stupid lmao.

2025-10-16T12:58:01+00:00

Feminism is just an ideology like Communism or Fascism, there is nothing "Mysoginistic" about hating an ideology you can either chose or reject, better tell Feminists to stop hate speech against men because men definitly didn't chose their gender, much like you can't chose the color of your eyes or the size of your nose

AbysmalDescent · 2025-10-16T17:23:28+00:00

I have never seen, in the entire history of feminism, a single act of activism done with even the slightest bit of consideration for how they affect men, or how social structures should be changed because they are unfair to men. When men and women fought for women's universal right to vote, women opposed it because they didn't want to be burdened with the responsibility of military service. They never actually fought to be equal, recognizing that mandatory service for the right to vote was unfair to men. Ultimately, and quite quickly, laws were changed to whatever best suited women as a whole, with men leaning in whatever political direction they felt would best benefit women(which, in of itself, completely undermines this idea that women were powerless without the right to vote in the first place).

When feminists fought for more women in the work place, it was never because it's not fair that all financial burdens should fall on men, or that men should continue to be judged on how much money they earn. It was strictly about women having a greater financial independence from men, and enabling women to have choices that men never had. It's not really a surprise that those gender roles for men are still very much alive and unchanged, while women now have more options than ever before. It's also not really a surprise that women end up being over represented in a lot of the social, high-status, or comfortable jobs and under represented in the isolated, low-status or uncomfortable jobs.

When has feminism ever strived for a complete, two-sided approach at gender equality? Because all I have seen is a distortion of reality, meant to present women as victims in all cases, at men's expense. Terms like benevolent sexism(which is generally just female chauvinism or misandry), men-keeping, men-splaining, and patriarchy only exist because of this one-sided approach to gender issues from feminism.

Working_Parsley_2364 · 2025-10-16T20:57:11+00:00

There are NO "good" feminists fighting by our side. ALL feminists are toxic hateful fascists who downplay male oppression and only care about white cis-females. If any one of them truly cared they would NOT label themselves a feminist.

pearl_harbour1941 · 2025-10-20T12:03:37+00:00

This sounds a lot like tone policing.

Feminists: "If you want to talk about men's issues, go make your own space."
Men: "Okay, done."
Feminists: "Hey, let us in, excluding us is sexist!"
Men: "Fine."
Also feminists: "You shouldn't talk like that in here. If you want to talk like that, go make your own space."

Where is the space that men can just vent, eh? Or is venting exclusively a female privilege...

IllustriousBowl4316 · 2025-10-24T15:42:11+00:00

You're damn right...

Friendly_Intention_2 · 2025-10-16T09:59:09+00:00

Nah, I agree with you, lowkey first thing I've seen on here that doesn't sound just weird or unnecessary.

Sam__Toucan · 2025-10-18T07:47:45+00:00

There are some great posts in this sub but unfortunately there are also a lot of misogynists. Ever since subs like incel, redpill, MGTOW got shut down they all came here

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