Typical feminist hate apologist:

i won’t deny there are really radical feminists out there who hate men and want them to die, but they have misunderstood the values of the movement, which is equality and equity for ALL

I see this argument twenty times a week and it's complete bullshit. Sometimes you even see it from naive MRAs who for some reason haven't yet accepted that feminism is a hate movement and that colours ALL feminists.

Radicals?

The feminist pretends they are conceding something important by acknowledging that hate mongers exist in the feminist movement. Something anyone in the last twenty years can and have been pointing out easily with just a link. Or a page of links. They're not conceding anything. They're trying to deny it even though it's one of the easiest facts to prove. They seek to deny it by saying it's not important. Genocide advocacy isn't an important sign of anything, they claim with a straight face. The reality is that genocide advocacy is such an extreme that outside of war rhetoric, it's limited to hate movements. Therefore it's a very good indicator of hate -- because nobody normal would say it or joke about it.

My reply:

These "radicals" include college professors with tenure. Leaders of the feminist movement for decades have "misunderstood" have they? Explain to me how that's possible will you? While you're at it can you list a few famous cannibals who are leading the Vegan movement? Cannibals who just "got the wrong idea" about what vegan means and accidentally became leaders in the movement anyway over decades of popular support from other vegans? 'Cos you're saying that's a thing, right? That stuff just happens?

Or sometimes I'll point out that the feminist movement popularized the slogan "Kill All Men" so much they abbreviated it to "KAM". How is that possible if only "radicals" feel that way?

The fact is that when you point out hate in their movement, the feminist is put in a box of their own making. They have to justify why they stick around in a movement that's know for hating men. Because the most obvious reason to stick around is because they agree with the hate or at the VERY least they tolerate it. Anyone who genuinely wanted equality at this point would denounce the hate and leave the movement. But the feminist can't do that so they have to defend it (by minimizing it).

Genocide? That's just a JOKE. Oh they were serious? That's just RADICALS.

This is a de facto defense of genocide advocacy. What a real person supporting equality would say is "that stuff is totally unacceptable hate speech EVEN if it was a joke and ESPECIALLY when it's said seriously by leaders. If this goes on in the feminist movement then I cannot be a member of that movement because I support equality and obviously that means I take genocide advocacy seriously."

No feminist ever says this.

All feminists defend the hate.

And that is the simplest proof that ALL feminists are bad feminists. NOT ONE believes in equality or they'd leave the movement. You're not born into feminism. It's a political movement that is supported by only about 1 in 4 women (and 1 in 5 or 6 men). There's no excuse for being in the feminist movement these days. There's no innocent by standers who accidentally fell into being feminists. If you come on a board like this, a political board, and you admit you know about the hate in the movement then you're saying AT THE VERY LEAST that you tolerate hate.

And that means you DO NOT WANT equality.

True of EVERY feminist.