It's almost abhorrent that we have to continually debate stupid feminist tropes just to get a meager consideration of what it means to extend to non Basic human rights.

Now I do believe in gender and racial discrimination and it helps to use one to understand the other especially if you are a minority woman you have the ability to use your racial discrimination to understand gender discrimination of men, conversely if you are a racial majority mail you have the ability to use your gender discrimination to understand racial discrimination.

But you see here we come to white women and minority men.

Minority men have both racial and gender discrimination; they have no clue what being privileged could even mean. ( although I have tried to use the analogy a when they were a young teenager living at home taking everything for granted and complaining about everything stupid while everybody else took care of their basic needs) sorry guy that's as close as you're going to get understanding privilege.

Look for the racial majority females; they have racial and gender privilege. it's impossible for them to understand what discrimination really is, which explains all the frivolous issues feminism has raised. You know if you simply calculate in their analysis personal responsibility a sense of agency a requirement that they be prudent or at the very least acknowledge reality, to the extent that they find this an impossible task time and time again I really do not waste my time knowingly debating white women ( there is a special kind of idiot in my opinion)

Either way, I believe it's impossible to understand discrimination without understanding privilege: commensurately. it's impossible to understand privilege without understanding discrimination.

There is no way forward for some people on these issues except for a strong sense of personal responsibility being instilled in women and a strong sense of basic human rights being installed in our young boys.

This is the way forward, like it or not.